If you’re reading this column right now and you’re in
Arkansas or Montana or North Dakota or
Wyoming, please stop and email me right now to tell
me this! Y’see, I’ve received letters from folks in 257
councils across the country, covering all states but those four.
I’m betting there are some readers in these four states, too,
that I just haven’t heard from. So, think of this as a “roundup”
and if you’re in one of these four, just drop me a quick message
letting me know. THANKS!
Dear Andy,
I’m a Scoutmaster with a
problem I could use some help with... I have an Eagle candidate who is
simply unable to provide meaningful answers to conventional questions
associated with the Eagle rank (leadership experiences, family, Scout
Oath & Law, and so on). This is a Scout who has always been shy, but
is reasonably sociable and does fairly well in school. I’ve known him
for about five years now. During our initial
Scoutmaster’s Conference
it became apparent that the process would be a problem (“like pulling
teeth” is a fair analogy). Even after re-phrasing and simplifying
questions several ways, I didn’t get much in return. He was not
particularly nervous, but he just couldn’t “get it out.” My thought was
that he might just need more time to think, or he might be better at
writing than speaking, so I gave him a list of clear, specific written
questions to consider and respond to over a period of a few days. The
result of this wasn’t much better than the first. But he’s otherwise
completed all rank requirements including leadership tenure and his
leadership project. I have the understanding that if a Scout does the
work for the rank, he’s earned it. If that’s correct, do I sign off on
his Eagle rank application and recommend him scout for an Eagle board of
review, knowing his interview with the board will probably be very
difficult? (Dave, Scoutmaster, Orange County Council, CA)
This young man (I have to tell
you that I’m VERY curious as to his age—I’m going to guess around 16)
has already had five conferences with you, and five boards of review.
By now, he should fully understand the significance of both, and at the
same time you and the troop committee have each had five opportunities
to let him know in no uncertain terms what’s expected of him.
If he’s not completed his
Scoutmaster Conference successfully, then he hasn’t met all of
the requirements for Eagle rank, because the Scoutmaster Conference is
the final requirement, and must be completed as a requirement in
order for you to recommend this young man for his Eagle board of
review. If he’s falling short of your expectations, then he needs to be
told this in crystal clear language, and he must be told exactly what is
expected of him, and he must be given a time-line
for preparing himself. This will be repeated as many times as are
needed in order for him to muster the necessary energy, articulateness,
and attention to his “audience,” and begin comporting himself as if he
were an Eagle Scout.
You, as his Scoutmaster, have an
obligation to every single Eagle Scout who has ever gone before
to make certain that this young man is in every way a true Eagle Scout,
and ready for his board of review. In other words, this is not “lip
service” by any stretch of the imagination, and you absolutely cannot
“rubber stamp” his rank application!
If he is around the age I’m
guessing he is, then he is, by nature, recalcitrant and borderline
inarticulate. He’s at a stage in his young life where he’ll do
everything possible to be a “minimalist”—He will give adults like
yourself, his teachers, his parents, and all others the least possible
effort and response, and if he can get away with that, he’s a happy
camper. So, what he probably needs more than anything else is a
KITA, a “wake-up call,” a “come to Jesus”
talk, a “Dutch uncle,” or whatever you want to call it—He must break out
of that stupor or torpor he’s in and start acting like an Eagle Scout
or... He won’t be one!
He also needs to be told with
utmost candor that if he goes before the board in his present
attitudinal state, and that board is not unanimously positive, his Eagle
medal will go flying right out the window.
It is not your job, or the
board’s job, to “pull teeth” to get an intelligent word out of him. If
you ask him what “Duty to God and Country” means and you get the
classic, “I dunno,” you MUST sound the gong and tell him, flat out,
NOT GOOD ENOUGH—That may work somewhere else, but IT DOESN’T WORK HERE.
If you can’t speak up about a subject like that, I can’t consider you
Eagle material, so make up your mind what you want to do, right now: You
can either try again, or this meeting’s over till you come to me with
the intention of acting like the Eagle Scout you want to be. And
then stop talking. What happens next is up to him. If he chooses to
not start articulating, end the conference right then and there. But
let him know that your door’s always open, anytime he changes his mind
and wants to do what he already knows he needs to do.
Dear Andy,
My son, a Scout, is a 5th
grader and is receiving the Presidential Physical Fitness Award. Does
the BSA recognize this award? (Jim Weston, Troop 17, Burlington, NC)
The Presidential Physical Fitness
Award program is school-administered and not a part of the BSA. He
might, however, be interested in earning the BSA Physical Fitness
Award. Learn about this at
www.scouting.org/pubs/19-327/index.html
Hello Andy,
I’m looking for a web site
or other source for BSA “medal” trails and/or hikes. (I completed two
as a Girl Scout myself: Jockey Hollow in Morris County, NJ, and
Washington’s Crossing in Buck’s County, PA.) I’m trying to locate new
trails for the Scouts I now assist with, along with a photo history or
log of the medals. (Donna Donaldson, GSUSA)
It’s great to have a Girl Scout
leader read and write to me! Thanks! Hey, I just Googled “scout” and
“medal” and “hikes” and a whole bunch of stuff came up! Try it! I’ll
bet you’ll find something in your area. If not, then try going to the
BSA web site (www.scouting.org) and track down some councils around
where you live, get their phone numbers, and give ‘em a call! I’ll bet
if they have any such trails they’ll be happy to help you out!
Dear Andy,
My Venture Scouts
are working on their Gold Awards. One requirement says, ”The candidate
must have participated in a district/Venturing division, council, area,
region, or national event.” Does this mean that the event needs to be a
Venturing-specific event, or any district/ division/ council/ area/
region/ national event? Right now, I have two Venturers who are in
holding patterns on this. When I read it the first time, I interpreted
it to mean that it needed to be a Venturing-specific event, but, when
they read it, they interpreted it to be simply an event above that of a
regular crew. (Jason Capone, Associate Advisor-Awards & Programs, Crew
1928, Minsi Trails Council, PA)
The BSA is excellent at
precise wording of advancement requirements. Consequently, had they
meant for the required event to be Venturing-specific, I’m certain that
that language would be in there! Therefore, the conclusion I draw is
that it is not required that the event be Venturing-specific. The
intent, as I read this requirement, is that they participate in an event
beyond the Crew or Venture Patrol level.
Dear Andy,
We have everything in place
to start a new troop. But being in a small town is much different from
being in a large town where you have many options for Chartered
Organizations—churches, PTAs, businesses, parents, and so on. A new
bank is moving into town and they’re willing to sponsor our new troop,
because their president wants to become involved in the community.
However, our council’s Scout Executive doesn’t prefer a business to
sponsor Scouting units. Now, I’ve learned that the BSA national council
says it’s OK for any business to charter a troop, but he says that there
are “always problems” with a business chartering a troop. Of course we
do have churches in town, and the Baptist church has been very
welcoming for our Cub Scout pack to meet at their building, but I’m
really trying to get a neutral party because the churches all compete
for people, youth, etc. Are there really more problems with a business
chartering, as opposed to a church? What about a parent group? (Laura
Hendrix, South Plains Council, TX)
If the Baptist Church in town
already sponsors your Cub Scout pack, I’ll bet they’d love to sponsor a
Boy Scout troop, too, and they already have the motivation, the
interest, and the facilities! So what’s the problem here? Seems like a
no-brainer to me! This isn’t because I’m in any way against the
business-as-sponsor idea. I’m just wondering why not take a straight and
level path instead of the steep and rock-strewn one? Besides, when you
have both a pack and a troop with the same sponsor, the odds favor the
pack becoming the “feeder” right into the troop every February!
Hi Andy,
In official requirements
for an Eagle board of review, it states that no adult Scout leader can
be on an Eagle board of review; that he/she must be 21 years old, cannot
be a parent or guardian, etc. Ok that’s fine by me, except, in our
Troop, all of our parents are registered committee members. First
question: Is this a leadership position?
Also, we have some adult
committee members who hold other adult leadership positions in the troop
and are officially trained, while other committee members don’t have
other leadership positions and aren’t trained (their only function is to
attend meetings). So, second question: Can those committee members who
aren’t leaders in other capacities sit on an Eagle board of review?
I’m asking because the BSA
says that an Eagle board of review member must be aware of and
understand the entire Eagle journey, and I don’t know how non-Scouting
adults can give appropriate input at an Eagle board of review. Even if
they know the Scout, they don’t know Scouting.
As advancement chair, it
seems to me that one would want or need an adult over 21 who is familiar
with Scouting and who has either helped or observed the Scout
demonstrate leadership to be on his Eagle board of review. But if our
adults know the Scout because they’re committee members, but they can’t
sit on an Eagle board, then who can? (Nick Grimley, Minneapolis, MN)
You have a few errors of fact
that need to be straightened out first...
Here’s the BSA policy: “The board
of review for an Eagle candidate is composed of a minimum of three
members and a maximum of six members, 21 years of age or older.
These members do not have to be registered in Scouting, but they must
have an understanding of the importance and purpose of the Eagle board
of review. At least one district or council advancement
representative shall be a member of the Eagle board of review...
(boldface by BSA)”
It is also a BSA policy that,
while a unit leader (e.g., Scoutmaster or ASM) may be present at
any board of review, including Eagle, he or she is not a member
of the board and has no vote in the board’s decision.
Further, it is a BSA policy that
no parent or guardian may be a member of any board of review for
his or her own son.
Finally, it is also a BSA policy
that, except for the COR position, no adult is to hold more than one
registered position within a Scouting unit (that would be the troop, in
your situation).
(Note that “training” is not
included in any of these policies.)
Assuming that we’re now on the
same page:
- Yes, troop committee members
may sit on Eagle boards of review, just as they must comprise the
boards of review for all other Boy Scout ranks.
- You’re making a hugely
incorrect assumption with regard to members of an Eagle board of review
who are not registered BSA volunteers. The BSA policy states that such
a person, whether ever having been a Scout or Scouter, need only have
“...an understanding of the importance and purpose of the Eagle board of
review.” For instance, the head of your CO would be an highly
appropriate Eagle board member, as would your town’s mayor, police
chief, school superintendent, and so on. And who’s to say these types
of people weren’t Boy Scouts or Girl Scouts themselves or even Eagle
Scouts or Gold Award Girl Scouts, or weren’t BSA volunteers at some time
in the past. And, even if they weren’t, that certainly doesn’t mean
they shouldn’t be invited to participate, at which time an “understanding
of the importance and purpose of the Eagle board of review” can be
given them.
Nick writes again…
Hi Andy,
In the official policies and procedures for Eagle rank from NESA
it states that the Scout must use BSA Publication No. 18-927D to record
his Eagle Project work. Also on the site there’s a link to download the
workbook in “word,” “rtf” and “pdf” format. Now, the pdf format can be
typed in, but not saved. Why is that? (The Word format can be saved.)
A typed format is far easier and a lot neater and easier to read
than handwritten, in many cases. Our district advancement chair doesn’t
allow Scouts to use any downloaded version of the workbook, citing the
ability of the Scout to change something after it’s been approved (if
cheating is or might be an issue, then requiring a signature on each
page would solve that).
A recent Eagle candidate downloaded and typed his project out in
the workbook. When it was presented to the district advancement chair,
he told the Scout was to physically cut and glue his typed report into a
pre-printed No. 18-927D workbook. This, to me, is ridiculous. If it’s an
official document on the NESA web site, a Scout should be able to use
it. In this case, technology has hindered Scout advancement!
I also have a question about Eagle Scout reference letters. As
troop advancement chair, I’ve received all required reference letters
for an Eagle candidate, except for an employer reference letter. The
Eagle candidate is not currently employed. The Eagle application states,
in regard to reference letters: “Employer (if any).” Now, the same
district advancement chair is insisting on an employer reference letter.
Why?
More, I recently downloaded some sample reference letters from
the official BSA website. Some have “Yes-No” answers to questions asked
of the referrer. Once again, the district advancement chair will only
allow written statements by the referrer; not downloaded formats of
reference letters.
I find this all very frustrating. I’ve talked with him about this
stuff but have got nowhere. He doesn’t seem to be following BSA policies
and procedures, and he doesn’t seem to be interested in changing. (Nick
Grimley)
I’m going to try taking your questions one by one...
Some folks use Adobe to create and/or edit documents, thus the pdf
file. Others use MS Word, and so that format is there for these folks.
Simple as that.
Your district advancement chair is pretty stupid and certainly not
Scouting-minded. To insist on a cut-and-paste approach when direct
entry is available to the most techno-savvy generation we’ve had yet is
philistine at best. To use the horrible assumption that some Scout will
“cheat” is about as un-Scoutlike as it gets, and besides, who’s to say
cut-and-paste can’t be pasted over, which makes this whole argument
silly.
I absolutely agree that what your DAC is demanding is pedantic,
antiquated and even possibly mean-spirited, and I’d definitely bring
this to the attention of the council advancement chair for
correction.
“Technology” isn’t hampering Scout advancement; a Luddite is.
Who says “letters” are required references for an Eagle Scout
candidate? That’s not on the rank application, nor is it anywhere else
as some sort of policy. A Scout’s references can be contacted by phone,
email, or even in person. Although letters are a usual way, they’re
certainly not the only way.
The Eagle rank application says nothing about “current” employer; it
simply says “employer.” So, if an Eagle candidate has been employed at
some time in the past (yes, mowing a neighbor’s lawn for pay counts),
then this would certainly be appropriate to include.
But, with regard to the above, and beyond this, it’s time to read the
flippin’ rank application. There is absolutely nothing that says every
one of those lines must be filled in, or even that every one of the
references listed must respond!
As to why your district’s advancement chair is demanding an employer
letter, my guess is the same as I’ve already stated: He’s a pedantic
jerk.
For Eagle candidate letters of reference, my personal position is that
“yes/no” and other “report card” formats are anathema to the Scouting
way and spirit. Personal letters, written in whatever style or manner
the author chooses are far more revealing than checking off some stupid
boxes. What are you going do with those—Give the kid a bloody grade?
Here are two model letters—one a reference request and the other for
scheduling the candidate for his Eagle board of review—for your use, if
you care to:
RECOMMENDATION REQUEST
(See
Eagle Req. 2 – From Advancement Chair to All Persons Listed)
Dear
(Recommender):
(Scout’s Full Name) is applying for the rank of EAGLE SCOUT – the
highest rank a Boy Scout can earn. (Scout’s First Name) has been
working toward the rank of Eagle since he first became a Boy Scout
and, if he is successful in his quest, he will have earned a
nationally recognized achievement that he will carry with him for
the rest of his life. To accomplish this, he has already completed
an extensive set of requirements that demonstrate his mastery of
specific skills, accomplishing of significant service to his
community, and leadership of others.
Very
soon, he will be called before an Eagle Scout Board of Review – a
group of citizens representing his community, his Scout Troop, and
the Patriots’ Path Council of the Boy Scouts of America. In this
review, we will be speaking with him about what he has accomplished,
and where he sees his life goals leading him in the future.
An
important part of this Review will be to understand how well he has
lived his daily life by the principles of the Scout Oath and the
Scout Law. The Scout Oath states: “On my honor, I will do my
best to do my duty to God and my country, to obey the Scout Law, to
help other people at all times, and to keep myself physically
strong, mentally awake, and morally straight;” and the Scout Law
states: “A Scout is trustworthy, loyal, helpful, friendly,
courteous, kind, obedient, cheerful, thrifty, brave, clean, and
reverent.”
(Scout’s First Name) has submitted your name to me as a person he
knows personally and would be able to comment – from your own unique
perspective – on how well you believe he has lived up to the Oath
and Law in his daily life. Consequently, I am asking you to write a
letter on his behalf, offering your perspective on these important
matters. This letter can be as long or as short, and as candid, as
you choose. I will ask you to send this letter to me using the
stamped, pre-addressed envelope I’ve enclosed. Your letter will be
treated in total confidence and will be seen only by the members of
the Board of Review and not ever by either this Scout or any
relative of his.
Please feel free to contact me directly
if you have any questions or concerns. Otherwise, please accept my
thanks in advance for your cooperation and helpfulness to this Boy
Scout.
Yours in Scouting,
(Your Name), Troop XXX Advancement Chair
BOARD of REVIEW SCHEDULING
(Final Step – From Advancement Chair to Candidate)
Dear (Scout’s First Name),
You have completed all requirements for
the Rank of Eagle Scout, and we have received certification from the
Patriots’ Path Council-BSA that, according to the council records,
all information provided on your Eagle Scout Rank Application is
correct. Now it is time for the very final step – Your Board of
Review.
Please be prepared to present yourself before your Eagle Scout Board
of Review at (Time) on (Day), (Date), at the (Location). Please
bring your Handbook, and please wear your full, complete and correct
uniform (refer to page 12 of your Handbook, or call me, if you have
any questions about this).
We are looking forward to meeting you, and to a most enjoyable
conversation about your Scouting experiences.
Yours in Scouting,
(Your Name), Troop XXX Advancement Chair
Dear Andy,
I read your comment on how
elections SHOULD BE popularity contests and I question whether you have
considered all the consequences.
We have at least two very
strong cliques of boys in our troop, who openly exclude or quietly
demean other troop members. These cliques include some of the more
popular kids. We also have several Scouts who aren’t part of these
cliques who are excellent Scouts. These not-so-popular Scouts attend
all meetings, participate in most outings, are hard workers, are liked
by the adults, nice, polite, respectful, honest and physically able
young men. They may be a little different (One is very intelligent but
on the quiet side; another has a language disability that makes it hard
for him to communicate; yet another is dyslexic). These unpopular
Scouts are routinely excluded by their peers; sometimes they’re told
outright to get lost or verbally assaulted. As they get older, some
kids are learning how to use these unpopular Scouts to do the work,
while they, the “popular” leaders, take the credit. The leadership
opportunities available to these unpopular kids are limited to positions
not wanted by the others, yet these kids are still working hard and
trying to be involved and be accepted. Meanwhile, the good
opportunities routinely go to the popular kids who may or may not be
putting in the effort. As with any troop, we do have some slackers, but
they’re evenly distributed across the popular group and the Scouts who
are excluded. The opportunities don’t seem to be based on desire, work
effort, respect for others or getting the job done—only popularity. I’ve
had multiple parents observe this behavior and lament for the excluded
boys, but no one seems willing to take a stand on it. I’ve spoken to
the parents of a couple of the “popular” scouts about this and their
response is that “Scouting is about friends and the friends want to be
together,” but “being together” means they get to exclude those they
don’t want around. I’ve spoken with our Scoutmaster, too, and his
response is that “these things usually work themselves out.” In other
words, he won’t do anything. Meanwhile some half-dozen years have gone
by and nothings “worked itself out.” At least two ASMs have made it a
point to talk to the Scouts who are doing this, but they turn around and
deny that they have a problem and attribute any discord to those who
aren’t popular. The only way it will work out for the unpopular Scouts
in this situation is for them to leave the troop. I find it appalling
that this sort of behavior is being condoned or met with silence; but,
one lone voice in a large troop goes nowhere. Looking at the Scout Law,
I find it hard to believe that popularity and cliques trump helping
others and respect.
Although I believe the Boy
Scout program is great in theory, and have seen it work well in the
past, in this situation the program is being used to the advantage of
small groups and I believe the adults are being used to support an
unhealthy environment.
Maybe you have a suggestion
on how a Scoutmaster, ASM or committee person should handle a situation
such as this, without singling out boys and without dictating leadership
positions? How should parents of the Scouts who are excluded address
the issues? I’d love to hear any ideas. (Name Withheld)
First, let’s get our language in
order: Boys don’t have “cliques;” they have “gangs.” No, I don’t mean
“Crips” or “Bloods” or “Sharks” or “Jets” (the latter two borrowed from
“West Side Story”). But fundamental to Scouting—Baden-Powell spotted it
and put it to good use a hundred years ago—is the method of keeping boys
in small groups (we call them “patrols”) because this is where boys
thrive, interact, and ultimately learn how to become men.
These boy-gangs we call patrols
work out best when the Scouts themselves arrange themselves into their
own groups; they function less well when we well-meaning adults “assign”
Scouts to various patrols, as if we’re filling up a bunch of stew-pots.
Some boys can definitely be mean and bullying, if permitted to, and this
is why a laissez faire approach by the Scoutmaster and his ASMs usually
doesn’t work very well (read: Not at all!). Certainly, “boys will be
boys,” but that’s not the objective of the Scouting program. “Boys,
under our guidance and role-modeling, will become happy, productive,
responsible citizens” is the job we have to do.
Baden-Powell put it this way:
The job of the Scoutmaster is to find the good in every boy, and
bring it out in him. No one’s ever said it better. Which
brings me to the next point... It’s all about the Scoutmaster.
If, as you say, there are
factions within the troop and certain of these contain individual
troublemakers, it is up to the Scoutmaster to counsel these boys on what
the Scout Oath and Scout Law mean and, even more important, what it
means in rank advancement when the requirements state that a Scout is to
“live the Scout Oath and Law in your daily life.” You see, if in the
Scoutmaster’s judgment, based on his observations, a Scout has not
been doing this, the Scoutmaster has an obligation to advise that Scout
that rank advancement will not be forthcoming until he sees some
positive changes in attitude and behavior.
The cold fact is that these
so-called “popular” Scouts aren’t really popular, they may be bullies
and grabbers, though, and they sure seem to be in love with smelling
their own exhaust. It’s high time somebody stepped in and set them
straight. Remember: Elected or appointed, all youth leadership
positions require approval of the Scoutmaster. If he’s been allowing
these Scouts the “easy path” then somebody may need to apply the boot to
his butt before he’ll get the notion that he has a real job to step up
to. If he’s not willing to do his job, it’s time for him to start
packing.
B-P put
it this way:”Any adult who can’t make his point to a keen boy in
under ten minutes should be shot.” He sure got that right!
The Scoutmaster also needs to
counsel the Scouts who are being put-upon, giving them the support and
the tools they need to deal with their taunters. This, likewise, is his
job. In fact, it’s one of his most important jobs!
The Scoutmaster’s role is not
that of sergeant-like disciplinarian, or teacher-cum-headmaster, or
parent, or pastor—it’s that of being a “big brother” to all Scouts in
his troop. Big brothers don’t let their kid brothers get beat up, and
they sure don’t stand for their kid brothers beating up on some other
kid! The Scoutmaster does this by talking, drawing out each boy, and
pointing the way to becoming a decent human being.
So, what to do... Start by
assembling enough parents of like minds, enlisting the aid of members of
the troop committee, and have a heart-to-heart with this
under-performing Scoutmaster and tell him what needs to happen for this
troop to be a success for all its Scouts. If he shuffles his
feet on this, replace him, immediately. When you do this, don’t walk
small around the central issue. This is NOT about the Scouts, who are,
in fact, behaving normally. This is about the Scoutmaster, who is NOT
behaving like a Scoutmaster should.
Finally, when it comes to
elections, a brief admonition can be given the Scouts, like this:
”When you vote for
our next Senior Patrol Leader, think carefully about who you want to
lead this troop. Do you want someone who picks on you or other Scouts,
or do you want someone who will help any Scout in the troop? Do you
want a slacker, who disappears when there’s work to be done, or someone
who is the first to roll up his sleeves? Do you want a guy you’d never,
ever want to have to share a tent with, or a guy who you’d enjoy having
as a tent-mate? Do you want a guy who, if you were in trouble in the
water, would laugh at you, or someone who you believe would jump in and
help you? THESE are the ways you choose a Senior Patrol Leader!”
Unnamed writes again…
Dear Andy,
I think our
Scoutmaster is extremely well intentioned. But there’s a lot of
ignorance about how to handle situations like dealing with kids from
different schools, dealing with disabled kids, or kids who walk to a
different beat, especially when the cliques who are excluding them
contain boys who are generally seen as “nice” kids. Although I believe
that our Scoutmaster can have some influence, I also believe that it’s
limited if Scouting parents (including ASM’s and Committee members)
aren’t on the same page. Currently, many of them truly believe that
Scouting is about being only with their friends; not about expanding
their group of friends or being a “big brother” to all members of the
troop. My hope is that there would be a strong statement about
the intent of the BSA program as well as some pointers and/or positive
suggestions that our Scoutmaster and other adult leaders could use to
work towards a solution. I’m one of those optimist that feel if people
are made aware of a problem and a strategy can be defined or outlined,
well-meaning intelligent people will jump on board. It’s the
awareness-and-thinking part of coming up with the solution that appears
to stump people.
I think your
clarification hit the mark as a strong statement of what the Scouts are
about. We also definitely need strategies and/or activities requiring
troop leadership (both boys and adults) to actively think about this and
understand that it’s part of their responsibility as leaders—both youth
and adult—to support this. I believe that there are many adults and
Scouts (not just in our troop) who translate the concept of “patrols
work out best when the Scouts themselves arrange themselves into their
own groups” to mean that within Scouting activities boys don’t need to
work with or include anyone who is not their immediate friend. When they
divide themselves, they’ll be in one patrol or group together, and
everyone who isn’t one of their friends will always be in another.
Bullying is hard
to spot when it’s exclusion, because all that’s seen on the surface is
that kids are playing with their friends. Unfortunately, anyone not
within one of the groups of friends is perceived to be the person with
the problem.
If you have a
large troop, I don’t believe the Scoutmaster can go this alone—he’d need
the support of the ASMs, and committee members. I believe he might be
able to get that, with the right strategies and your strong
statement. Right now, the literal interpretation of the “patrol
method” is used as justification to support exclusionary activities, and
I don’t believe that was Baden-Powells intention. I think your response
clearly states the meaning of the patrol method, and will go a long
way.
Thanks for writing again. Here
are some points that seem to need further emphasis...
Scouting in America is INCLUSIVE;
not exclusive. Handicapped, ADHD, MD, epileptics, learning disabled or
challenged, and on and on, are welcome through Scouting’s doorway. THIS
is where they find unconditional acceptance! Anything less than this is
flat-out WRONG.
THERE ARE NO “CLIQUES” AMONG
BOYS.
When boys are given the
opportunity to form their own groups, and all become members of their
own groups—which we call patrols—NO ONE IS EXCLUDED because each is a
member of his own patrol.
Scoutmasters need to have the
backbone necessary to get every one of his ASMs on the same page as he
is, and if they won’t or can’t do this, he replaces them without
hesitation or delay. There cannot and must not be factions among the
uniformed leaders.
As for committee members and
parents in general, in a properly run troop they have no role that
places them in contact with the Scouts during troop meetings or
outings.
It sounds like it’s time for a whole bunch of folks to get some decent
training.
Hi Andy,
Our troop has a
long-standing policy that bans radios, CD players, and videogames on
campouts. Some old Scouters and committee members say that I should now
forbid MP3 players and cell phones too. I agreed to add MP3 players to
the list, but I disagree with banning cell phones. My reasoning is that
Scouts could carry their phones for emergencies, and have limited use
between 10 pm and 11 pm (when “lights out” is at 11). I’ve explained
that middle and high school boys have cell phones at school, so if they
had them in an emergency, or if they’re lost in the wilderness, etc., it
could be a good tool to have. The others, however, claim that the phone
can be lost or damaged, and my response to this is that it’s the boy’s
responsibility. As a parent, I require my son (14 and a Life Scout) to
always have his phone with him. Our committee is going to discuss this
further and I’d like to know what are the best practices or current
recommendations. (Jose Lepervanche),
I agree that, when camping and
hiking, Scouts need to leave their iPods, MP3 players, GameBoys, radios,
CD players, etc. at home, simply because (a) they’re not useful in a
Scouting environment and (b) they’re too susceptible to damage in the
kind of rugged (and wet!) outdoor environment that Scouting offers.
I’ve also heard all the arguments
advocating cell phones for Scouts on campouts, for supposed
“emergencies” and such, and to me they’re all malarkey.
As a diligent and intelligent
Scoutmaster, in a sensible troop, you would already be doing these
things, at the very least, on all campouts:
-
Buddy system at all times.
-
No Scouts ever go anywhere that’s out of line-of-sight without
telling the Scoutmaster (a) where they’re going and (b) when they’ll be
returning (and when they return, they “report in”).
These alone obviate the need for
cell phones.
Now, you can take this a step
farther: In your troop meetings, start teaching basic signaling.
Signaling? Right! With whistles (three whistle blasts means “danger”
or “help,” etc.), and with mirrors (CDs and DVDs that are no longer
useful are excellent signaling mirrors! They even have the “sight-hole”
pre-drilled!).
Then, when you go hiking or
camping, apply the ground rule that, to go out of sight, at least one of
the buddy pair must have a whistle with him, and at least one must have
a mirror. No exceptions.
As Scoutmaster, of course you
would have a cell phone, plus one as backup, specifically for
emergencies (that is, you absolutely cannot be seen “chatting” on a
phone yourself—you’ve gotta walk the talk!). But those two are the only
phones on the trip. Period.
Since 1910, over one hundred
million Scouts have gone hiking, camping, caving, backpacking, rock
climbing, canoeing, kayaking, boating, and mountaineering without cell
phones. I somehow think your Scouts will survive!
Dear Andy,
How do you properly hoist
the American flag in the woods without access to a pole? What knots do
you use? What’s the proper flag etiquette? Can the flag touch the
tree? Can it be at an angle? How do you hoist it in the woods using a
tree? (I can’t find anything by Googling and no one I’ve asked seems to
know.) (Terry McGarty, Wolf DL, Pack 28, Westchester Putnam Council, NY)
To bring an American flag along
on a camp-out or other outdoor activity is a terrific idea that many
Scouting units forget! Good for you, for remembering!
Just throw a light line over a
tree limb (tie a small rock to the thrown end, so it has some “carry,”
then remove the rock after you’ve recaptured the thrown end), and tie
that end to the flag’s top grommet. Tie the other end to the bottom
grommet, so that you have a loop, with the flag completing the loop.
Hoist the flag in the normal flag-raising manner (standing at attention,
with salutes), and then tie the line off around the tree’s trunk or a
low branch.
Of course the flag can touch the
tree, or another branch, or whatever. It can even touch the ground,
briefly, if by accident. None of these incidences means that you have
to destroy the flag!
Dear Andy,
I’m an amateur
astronomer and current president of an astronomy club. We do frequent
outreaches with Scouts, where we bring our telescopes and teach Scouts
how to explore the night sky. I’ve been asked to again this year to do
this for a local troop, for the Astronomy Merit Badge. They asked me if
I was a certified counselor. What is a certified counselor, and what
would I need to do to obtain this certification? Thanks. (Jerry Truitt,
President, Delmarva Stargazers)
First off, my hat’s off to you
for reaching out to youth! And also for finding me! (Yes, you came to
the right place!)
They meant to say “registered”
Merit Badge Counselor (“MBC”); not “certified.” Each Boy Scout Council
(there are some 300 of these councils across the US, each contiguously
covering a service area) maintains a list of registered MBCs, who can
sign off on Boy Scouts who complete the requirements for merit badges
(there are over 100 of these, all on different subjects). To learn what
an MBC does, go to...
http://www.usscouts.org/boyscouts/MBCounseling.html
For a standard MBC application
and a BSA Adult Volunteer application, go to
www.scouting.org/forms/34405.pdf and
www.scouting.org/forms/28-501.pdf
The specific council you’d want
to register in is the...
Del-Mar-VA Council-BSA
801 N. Washington Street
Wilmington, DE 19801-1597
302-622-3300 • 1-800-766-SCOUT
(7268)
and their website is here:
www.delmarvacouncil.org/
Signing up is pretty painless, and for MBCs, there’s no annual
registration fee!
Finally, to see all of the requirements for Astronomy merit badge, go
here:
http://www.meritbadge.com/mb/022.htm
Have a blast!
Dear Andy,
One of our Boy Scouts
believes in Shamanism,
and I’m wondering if there’s an existing Boy
Scout Religious Award for this. (Bob Stotter, Chaplain, Troop 662,
Shaker Heights,
Ohio
The BSA does not administer the
religious award programs that are available to Scouts through various
religious organizations, but the BSA does accommodate and recognize
them. The best resource I’ve found for the wide variety of such
programs is an organization called P.R.A.Y.—Programs of Religious
Activities with Youth. Check them out at
www.praypub.org.
Dear Andy,
Do all adults need a Class
1 Medical Form, if just going on a camping trip of less than72 hours?
(Donna Wiesner)
The BSA says yes. In fact,
that’s the specific purpose of the Class 1 Medical Form. For detailed
information on the three classes of medical forms, refer to page 49 of
the Guide To Safe Scouting.
Dear Andy,
I’m looking for
information on how to be a good (great) Scoutmaster. Previously, I was a
Den Leader at every level, Assistant Cubmaster, and then Cubmaster.
I’ve just trained for Assistant Scoutmaster. It’s the suggestion of our
troop’s committee chair that I get a little “time off” while my son has
just earned Scout rank and will be moving along to First Class. After
that, they’ve asked me to commit to the position of Scoutmaster. So,
from now till then, I want to “do my homework.” (Barry Roa, ASM, Troop
615, Mission Viejo CA)
Congratulations on standing up,
rolling your sleeves up, becoming a Scouting volunteer, and sticking
with it! This is maybe the most rewarding endeavor you can do with your
free time, and will pay off in dividends you can’t even begin to
imagine! Stay the course!
Here’s your homework...
- Read your son’s Boy Scout
Handbook. Read it with his perspective in mind, being
sensitive to what this book is promising your son and his friends, about
Scouting, so that, when you’re Scoutmaster, you can be sure to deliver
what’s been promised.
- Read the Scoutmaster
Handbook, which will give you lots of details on the “how” of
Boy Scouting, which you’ll want to know.
- For the true “why” of Scouting,
read Baden-Powell’s Aids to Scoutmastership (you can
download it for free at, for instance,
http://clipart.usscouts.org/ScoutDoc/BPAids/BPAidsSM.pdf.
Written in 1919, it’s underlying principles are as true today as then,
because although the world has changed, boys haven’t.
- Finally, read my column, “Are
We Really That Smart.”
Then, take your “job” as
Scoutmaster seriously; never take yourself too seriously.
Dear Andy,
I’ve read numerous letters
to you from committee members expressing frustration at not having the
ability to approve or disapprove a Scout’s advancement during a board of
review. I’d like to point out what I think is one of the most
important benefits of boards of review. In my “day job,” I have the
privilege of supervising several of the finest U.S. Air Force
officers—They’re in positions that require advanced degrees, for which
the selection process is highly competitive. Recently, I was talking
with two of these fine officers about the process they went through to
be selected. One mentioned how nervous she was meeting the various
boards that make the selections. The other, an Eagle Scout, said that
he didn’t have any problem! He said that after having had positive
experiences with his boards of review on the way to Eagle, he was quite
comfortable meeting the Air Force boards that selected him for the Air
Force Academy and for an advanced degree program. I think that folks
who think a board of review is a “meaningless rubber stamp” need to look
a little further down the road! (I very much enjoy reading your
column. Please keep up the great work.) (Ed Hess, Council Training
Chair, Tecumseh Council, OH)
Happy Scouting!
Got a question? Send it to me at
AskAndyBSA@yahoo.com.
(Please include your council name and home state)
(Mid-May 2007 – Copyright © Andy McCommish 2007)