If
you’re reading this column and you’re in MONTANA,
NORTH DAKOTA, or WYOMING please take a quick break
and shoot me an email. I’ve received letters from folks in all
but these states. So think of this as a “roundup” and just send
me a quick message to let me know. THANKS!
Dear Andy,
I see a lot of
emphasis on dealing with Scouts with disabilities, and this is a great
thing—several of my Scouts have disabilities. But what about Scouting
adults with disabilities? I myself have this: I’m bipolar. I’m on
medications, and it doesn't interfere with my ability as a leader;
however, once in a while I'm afraid the condition shows through. Nothing
serious, but noticeable. There are other leaders I’ve spoken with who
are in this same situation, and many are actually afraid to tell anyone
in their Troop about it – They feel that it would make both the parents
and their fellow leaders not trust any decisions that they make. I for
one have casually talked with other leaders, “around the campfire,” so
to speak, about what they’d do if an adult with a mental health issue
wanted to volunteer for their unit, and almost all of them said they’d
not want a person like this near the Scouts, because “they’ll hurt or
molest them." Any ideas? (Name Withheld)
Thank you for your
bravery and honesty in asking this question.
I personally know both a
Scouter father and Scout son, both of whom have Asperger's Syndrome. I
once had an adult summer camp staffer on my watch who was severely
epileptic. There is a Scout in one of the troops I serve as
Commissioner who has multiple sclerosis; another with severe asthma.
Another Scouter friend is subject to severe depression, and is on daily
medication for this. Perhaps Scouting at its most magnificent is that
it’s a movement that can and will accommodate all of these
successfully. These people are, in many ways, Scouting's unsung heroes,
and Scouting is their own safe harbor.
People fear the
unknown. This is the result of ignorance (not to be confused with the
lack of intelligence). When they don't know, don't understand, or have
only part of the story (usually the scary part, of course), they are
fearful. (This is why the most riveting monster movies – like the
original Alien – never show the audience full "monster.") With
fear comes avoidance, and even possibly rejection. This latter is the
most painful at the human level.
Likewise, there is the
fear of the afflicted. They don't know how others will react or respond
to their affliction, and are consequently fearful of mentioning it, or
having it exposed. Sometimes, their way of handling this becomes a
self-fulfilling prophesy: If I fear rejection, I somehow act in a way
that triggers rejection.
Both sides of this coin,
while quite human, are unfortunate. I certainly would be out of my
league to attempt to suggest some sort of "universal solution" to this.
It does seem to me, nonetheless, that each situation being unique, each
must be managed according to its own uniqueness.
I'd like to give you a
"silver bullet," a "cure-all," but I can't. I do think I have some
understanding of your situation, and I believe that your forthright and
honest approach to the situation will produce positive effects. No,
maybe not among all—No one can predict, much less control, the actions
of another person. But, in the long run, your candor will bring the
right kinds of people to your side. As for the others, they most likely
have a problem even greater than your own.
Don’t walk small a round
this. Hold your head high. Know that what you're doing in Scouting
and in life is WINNING AGAINST THE ODDS. You have my total and
unconditional admiration.
Dear Andy,
Can a District Commissioner
or an ADC wear the Venturing uniform as well as the regular Scout tan?
I’m looking to update my uniforms and I’d like to buy
a Venturing uniform
as well as the normal tan. Would this be allowed? We call on packs,
troops and crews. Why wouldn’t we be able to wear any of the uniform
types? Or should Commissioners stay in the regular tan uniform? (Stuart
Schnettler, ADC, Greater Niagara Frontier Council, NY)
If you were asking this
question as a Unit Commissioner specifically serving one or more
Venturing crews, my call would likely be "dress to fit your audience,"
and wear green-and-gray. But the DC and ADC positions are largely
administrative in nature and not unit-specific. So I think you’re
better off staying in tan, which is Scouting's foundation uniform color
for adults.
Hi Andy,
We’re a low-income
family and our son just crossed over to Boy Scouts. He now needs a youth
(medium) Scout shirt. We can't afford a new one right now. Do you know
where we can get one him that’s a little less expensive than at our
Scout Shop? (Name Withheld)
For starters, go here:
http://www.euxnetwork.net/
Dear Andy,
Under the heading
of Youth Protection, the BSA says this about two-deep
leadership: "Two registered adult leaders or one
registered leader and a parent of a participant, one of whom must be 21
years of age or older, are required on all trips and outings." We have
two conflicting opinions on a fine point and need a ruling… Does a
married couple qualify as "two deep" or does the BSA require two
non-married adults to fulfill this requirement? (George Payne, ADC,
Michigan)
Since the BSA is silent
on the subject of married/not married (to one another) leadership, it
would be foolhardy (and also pretty lame) for me to offer a "ruling." If
you really need this, check with your council's risk management
committee and ask the chair. That said, my personal opinion (and please
keep in mind that that's all it is!) is that "it depends." If the
married couple gets it-- they know how to keep Scouts safe and
how to comport themselves, then there should be no problem; if they
don't there's gonna be trouble. However, the same can be said about
any two leaders, married to one another or not!
"Fine points" like this
don't come up and get debated without some underlying problem. This
usually means that the "rule" isn’t the problem—there's a "people
problem" somewhere. This is what needs resolution. Look deeper.
Dear Andy,
You’ve probably
seen the “unofficial” Totin' Chip and Firem’n Chit flap patches that
have been around for a number of years, but now the BSA National Supply
Division itself is selling these! These patches aren’t in the Insignia
Guide, but they’re obviously designed to fit on a uniform pocket
flap. Can someone give us some guidance on wearing these (or not)?
Frankly, I'm not impressed with the concept, since you can only wear
one, anyway, unless you’re going to put them on both pocket flaps, and,
besides, since the requirements for the Totin' Chip and Firem’n Chit are
also requirements for Second Class rank, the Second Class emblem should
show that you’ve earned these. Moreover, under a lot of the
circumstances where we use these skills, we aren't wearing the uniform!
I think these detract from the OA flaps. (Ed Palmer, BSRTC, Stonewall
Jackson Area Council, VA)
These are, IMHO, the stupidest patches
ever produced! Want examples of "patches for patches' sake"? These
have to be it! Yes, I know that the catalog says, “For non-uniform
wear,” but there are simply too many folks who think, “If it’s a patch,
it must get sewn on the shirt somewhere!” The people who came up
with this lame idea – which also defeats the purpose of the TC and FC
cards, should be taken out and shot. End of story.
NetCommish Comment: These Totin' Chip and
Firem'n Chit flap patches have been around for a very long time - at
least 30 years. And there have been arguments for just as long.
Long ago there was a theory that the flap on the
right pocket could be used to display any patch denoting an honor camper
program and not just the Order of the Arrow. There were once flap
patches for "Embers" of the Firecrafter Organization (another honor
camper association in the Midwest and still active in Crossroads of
America Council - see pictures of flap patches at
http://www.usscouts.org/profbvr/firecrafter/embers.html)
There was an effort in the mid-70s to restrict
the pocket flap to just Order of the Arrow lodge patches, but some
Councils decided that this location was also their location for special
program patches. One of them was Sunnyland Council's "Rawhide
Camper" flap patch. Some Councils went so far as to authorize a
Tiger Cub flap patch. Mike Walton has an interesting story about
the use of the right pocket flap for patches at
http://www.infinetivity.com/~blkeagle/chip.htm including some
pictures of various patches that have been issued.
The bottom-line is that if the local Council has
authorized these patches, they are legal to wear in this position.
It doesn't mean that this is a good decision, but self-appointed uniform
police should take note and back off. Still I have to agree that
these are ridiculous patches and totally unnecessary. Any Scout
that has his Second Class Rank has completed the requirements and the
Second Class badge is ample evidence of the same.
Dear Andy,
After having
completed almost a year of service as an ASM with my son's Troop, I’ve
concluded that we adults did a poor job of training the current PLC
members for their respective jobs. For the past few weeks another ASM
and I have been discussing the need for our troop to institute/develop a
more formalized training program for the next group of Scouts elected to
the PLC. I’ve acquired a copy of the Boy Scout Troop Leadership
Training Book and, although I’ve not studied it in great detail, my
initial review makes me think it’s a little light. Do you have any
suggestions for other training materials/curriculums that could be used
to supplement this guide? (John Cromer, ASM, Keystone Area Council, PA)
I agree with you that
the troop-level JLT is a little on the light side. But in the absence
of anything else, it's still worth doing because it forms a framework
and sets the groundwork for your patrol leaders and SPL. It gets them,
at the very least, all on the same page. Now, with summer coming on
pretty soon, you do have a very real opportunity to kick it up a heap by
taking advantage of your council's NYLT (National Youth Leadership
Training – formerly JLT) course. This is a program designed
specifically for patrol leaders and SPLs that gives them a whole week's
worth of exactly the skills they need to do their jobs to the utmost!
This course is a "total immersion" in The Patrol Method, teaches
leadership skills, teamwork, Scout Spirit, and on and on!
The other program to
check out, for those Scouts who have gone through the NYLT course, is
the National YSDC – Youth Staff Development Course. Check out my column
called “Special—NJLIC to YSDC.”
Dear Andy,
I have to take issue
with your response, a while ago, to a question about the relationship
between the COR, head of the CO, and the unit committee chair:
“The
Scoutmaster reports to the committee…the committee chair is responsible
for delegating responsibility to the committee. The chair isn't the
decision-maker but is there to arrive at consensus among the committee
members. The Troop’ program of activities is developed by the Patrol
Leaders Council under the guidance of the Scoutmaster (who) presents the
program to the committee for suggestions. The troop’s committee also
selects the Scoutmaster (but) the TROOP COMMITTEE GUIDEBOOK is silent on
the method of selecting/electing a chair. However, if the committee is
unhappy with the way the chair is doing things, they have the right to
as him or her to step down.”
The Chartered
Organization head and/or the Chartered Organization Representative
signed the committee chair's application, and so the chair can only be
removed by the person or persons who appointed him to that position. The
committee has no power at all to remove the committee chair. They can
make a recommendation to the Chartered Organization but cannot summarily
remove and replace the committee chair. (David Smith)
That particular
situation, and my response, wasn't so much about "proper procedures" as
it was about what a group of Scout-minded volunteers need to do with a
wrongly appointed, wrong-headed committee chair who takes it upon
herself to start dictating policy (exacerbated by the fact that these
policies were indeed hurting the Scouting program in this troop!). If
we're going to play the "who signed what" game, we're going to continue
to have an unhappy troop and unhappy volunteer leaders. Now I'm not
suggesting that stated procedures be violated, but you need to be aware
that the BSA is perfectly silent on "proper procedure" for jettisoning a
nuisance who is damaging the program and treating fellow volunteers like
servants. This is no time for "guardhouse lawyers;" it's time to polish
the kickin' boot.
Hi Andy,
About the
Commissioner’s Arrowhead Honor – the “arrowhead” patch – I know the
correct placement for this on my commissioner uniform but I’m also an
Assistant Scoutmaster. I'm wondering: Do you wear the arrowhead only on
the commissioner uniform or can you wear it on both uniforms? (Kim
Henderson, UC & ASM, Piedmont Council, NC)
The Commissioner's
Arrowhead is worn ONLY under the Commissioner emblem on a Commissioner’s
uniform shirt and nowhere else. So you're correct that you don't wear
this particular emblem on your ASM shirt.
Hi Andy,
Our troop has a
registered committee member who is also registered as District
Commissioner and Unit Commissioner, and another who’s a member of the
district training staff. Can they vote as committee members? Or not,
because they’re double-registered? (Julie, MC, Gulf Ridge Council, FL)
"Vote" on what?
Committee members don't so much "vote" as they roll up their sleeves and
support their troop’s Patrol Leaders Council and the PLC’s program plans
for the troop.
Now, to get more
specific, it looks like you have some pretty typical Scouting volunteers
in your troop: They're wearing several Scouting "hats" and not just
one. Of course, one can't be both a District Commissioner AND a Unit
Commissioner—That's just plain silliness. And it's also a little silly
to be a Unit Commissioner for a unit where you're also a unit committee
member—That simply doesn't accomplish a whole heck of a lot! But it's
not unusual for a UC to be registered in a unit he or she doesn't serve
directly as a committee member. It's also not unusual for a unit
committee member or even a Scoutmaster to also be a member of a district
or council training staff -- After all, they're the ones with immediate
experience "where the rubber meets the road."
Let's not talk about
"voting," because there's virtually nothing for a unit committee to ever
have to vote on. Let's just make sure that these dedicated volunteers
don't take on too many jobs that their performance begins to suffer.
Oh, here's one
little-known fact: Did you know it’s a BSA policy that Scoutmasters and
Cubmasters can’t be Commissioners?
Dear Andy,
A
while ago, my twin nephews earned Eagle rank. Their mom, my sister,
comes from a Scouting family, and their dad was an active ASM with their
troop. The boys told me that they had a list of things they had to
bring to their Eagle board of review that their SM also requires them to
bring to their Scoutmaster Conference (which he uses as sort of a dress
rehearsal for the Eagle BOR), including a length of rope, compass, their
Boy Scout Handbook, and a number of other items. Of course, the
question I asked was: Why? As it turn out, it’s because the boards of
review for Eagle candidates (done at the district level, BTW) asks the
Scouts to perform some basic Scout skills. (I know you’re seeing “red
flags” all over the place, because this is retesting and not
reviewing.) I told the family that this is strictly against BSA policy
and it’s in writing, but this is not my region, council, or district. I
told my nephews to talk to their Scoutmaster, Committee Chair, COR or
Unit Commissioner about this, but they didn’t want to make waves while
under the scrutiny of their Eagle boards, because their district has a
reputation for dumping on Eagle candidates, so they said they’d do
something after their court of honor.
Well, over a year has come and gone, and they’ve not done anything to
stand up to their district’s advancement people to help Eagle candidates
who come after them. I’ve spoken with them about this and even shown
them in BSA manuals where they were wronged, and I’ve urged them to live
up to their Eagle badge and help others by correcting this abuse of
power. Do you have any suggestions to get these two Eagle Scouts to
take the right steps to end the tyranny they were put through, so that
other Scouts can be treated with the respect and fairness they deserve?
I’m looking for a better, wiser method of convincing these Eagles of
what should be seen as their duty to help others. (DM, NJ)
I
personally happen to think you're asking something of your nephews
that's outside the realm of "doing a good turn." It's not their place
to carry the message you're demanding of them to their district and/or
council. This is something that needs to be dealt with from the top.
Moreover, you apparently don't have any specific information on what
actually transpired at their Eagle BOR. If you do have another
conversation with these two young men about this, and are able to
determine that indeed something was done that's inappropriate (as
against merely speculating), then you have the opportunity to track down
the name of that council's Scout Executive and write a very diplomatic
letter about your concerns. After that, it's up to them to decide
what, if anything, to do; not you, and certainly not your nephews.
Dear Andy,
Is there a
standard BSA “quartermaster checklist”
for the equipment a troop should have? Our troop boxes have no rhyme or
reason. I’ve asked at our council service center if there’s a sample
inventory, and to my surprise they say they’ve never seen one. I do
understand we should have a troop tool box, a chef kit, and a patrol
box, and some other equipment. What are they, and what’s in them? If
you could direct me to a sample inventory list, I’d appreciate it. (Jan
DeBona, Connecticut Yankee Council, CT)
The reason no one
(including ol' Andy here) can give you a "perfect" list of troop
equipment is that every troop is a little bit different and organizes
things a little bit differently from others. For some good ideas, you
can Google "troop equipment" and/or "basic troop equipment" and the
citations that'll be pulled up will give you some food for thought.
But, my suggestion would be to first gather up all of the gear the troop
presently has and inventory it. This way, you'll at least know your
starting point. Then, take a look at the size of the troop overall.
Next, look at the number of intact patrols and the number of Scouts per
patrol. Then, take into account what sorts of gear the troop expects
its Scouts, as individuals, to have (for example, personal flashlights,
ponchos, water bottles, etc.) and see what the troop expects to provide
(like maybe compasses, axes, etc.). Finally, examine what gear your
patrols are expected to have for campouts and hikes (for instance, two
compasses, a first aid kit, staves, etc.). Put all of this together and
compare it to what you've unearthed by Googling. Decide what's needed
and what's already redundant, and build a "needs list." Such as, who
provides the tents—The Scouts, or the patrols, or does the troop "rent"
tents to the patrols. Use that list to decide how the troop can earn
extra money to buy the necessary gear, then go do it.
The quartermaster's job
carries with it lots of planning, sensible buying, inventory management,
establishing check-out/check-in procedures, and much more. It's a great
job for the Scout who likes this sort of stuff, and a disaster for one
who doesn't! So, when the Quartermaster’s appointed, choose wisely.
When I was a
Scoutmaster, our troop had a batch of two-man tents, sets of patrol
cooking gear, and Coleman Peak 1 stoves that we dispensed to our patrols
before each trip and collected (with thorough inspections!) on return
(everything was numbered). "Troop gear" was for the patrols; we never
camped as a troop—we always camped, hiked, and did everything by
patrols. So, every patrol already had individual staves and their own
patrol flag, various lengths of whipped-end rope, at least one compass,
and a first aid kit (which they kept filled), and they were expected to
bring their own gear (including the "10 Essentials") along on every
trip, receiving tents and cooking gear as needed. Our patrols planned
their own menus and did their own food-buying, and divvied up the food
weight among themselves, too! They could also split up the tents into
tent vs. rain fly and pegs, so that that weight could be distributed,
too.
Equip for the troop, but
think at the patrol level—This is where Scouting happens!
Dear Andy,
My son is having a
difference of opinion with his Scoutmaster as to what type of camping
nights are eligible for the Camping Merit Badge. The requirement
specifically states: “Camp a total of at least 20 days and 20 nights.
Sleep each night under the sky or in a tent you have pitched. You may
use a week of long-term camp toward this requirement. If the camp
provides a tent that has already been pitched, you need not pitch your
own tent.” My son did a week-long summer camp with his troop, and he
received credit for five nights. He also went to another summer camp
for four nights with a friend from another troop. His Scoutmaster is
saying that the four nights don’t count because you can only count a
total of five nights of summer camp. We told the Scoutmaster that the
focus seems to be on long-term camping, which is defined as being five
or more nights in a Scout-approved camp, and if the requirement was that
strict, why don’t they say you can only use five nights of resident
camp? I’d appreciate any advice you have on this. (Dan Newton)
If I were your son's
Scoutmaster, I probably would have given him "credit" for a total of
seven days (technically, "one week" is seven days-and-nights, right?).
Why? Because since the outdoors and its adventures is an essential
"tool" of Scouting, I'd want a boy to get and keep a keen interest in
the life of the outdoorsman! But that's just me.
Most Scoutmasters get it
right most of the time, a few get it wrong most of the time, and the
rest of us are sort of in the middle. Most Scoutmasters mean well and
are trying to carry out their responsibilities as best they know how.
Some succeed in this better than others. So choose your battles
carefully. Yes, your son's Scoutmaster probably made a mistake, but I'm
not sure I'd go to the mat on this one. Heck, what's a few more nights
camping? Your son will do a lot more than just 20 or so in his Boy
Scout "career." As his father, you might want to counsel him on that
little thing called "human error," and help him forgive his Scoutmaster
for being human. And then move on. There are bigger fish to fry and a
lot more mountains to climb than worrying (or getting resentful) about a
couple of camping nights here or there.
Dear Andy,
Can you supply me
with an Activity Badge Counselor sheet? In a few articles on the net,
I’ve seen reference to it, but I have yet to find it. This would really
help me determine who can help with each Activity Badge, as our boys
enter the Webelos program (Joseph Gagliardi, WDL, Fullerton, MD)
A "Resource Bank" of people who
can help your Webelos Scouts earn their various activity badges is
something usually developed by the Webelos Den Leader. The way to begin
is to make an inventory of the skills of the parents of your boys, to
find out what their businesses, professions, or jobs are, and also what
their hobbies and "extracurricular skills" might be. For instance, a
parent who's a nurse or doctor or rescue squad volunteer is perfect for
Readyman, a private artist or school art teacher can handle Art for you,
a travel agent can handle Traveler, and so on. Sometimes the matches
may not be perfect fits, but a little creativity goes a long way. You
can also reach outside your Den to people you or the other Den parents
might know around town, such as a swimming coach or instructor for
Aquanaut, a local handyman for Craftsman, and so on. The whole idea
here is not that you, personally, become an expert (even the "overnight"
kind) in these subject areas but that you and your Den parents find and
recruit different people who are, in fact, pretty good experts in the
activity badge subjects. The reason for this is so that the boys in
your charge begin to interact and learn from people they don't know so
well, because this helps prepare them for the Boy Scouting experiences
they'll soon be having.
Hi Andy,
I’m just writing
to tell you that you’ve been great resource for me. I read all your
columns and I find myself giving the same advice when questions are
asked of me. And I find myself correcting my behavior and reactions
when dealing with others in Scouting. I know I wouldn't be the
Commissioner I am now without your column. I just thought I’d send some
praise your way. Keep up the great work, it makes everyone think I am so
smart (grin). Your column helps me keep my eye on keeping Scouting such
a great program for boys and adults. It’s needed now more than ever!
The program we provide boys – "a game with a purpose" – sometimes is
lost when we as leaders forget that the boys want to have fun while
Scouting. Your column goes such a great way to correct those that seem
to forget this. Have fun this summer, I’ll be at Philmont taking
"Advanced Commissioner Training." I’m eager to see if I learn anything
more than I’ve gleaned from your column. (BTW, I used to be an Owl...) (Ty
Roshdy, Assistant Council Commissioner, Golden Empire Council, CA)
Me, too! Save the
Hooters!