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WE HAVE 7
QUIZ WINNERS!
They are, in order of arrival, Dale Wilson, Chehaw
Council, GA; Clarke Green, Chester County Council, PA;
James Eager, Gulf Ridge Council, FL; Jack Boyle,
Northern New Jersey Council; Georg Dahl, Tidewater
Council, VA; Bill Casler, Great Alaska Council; and
Brian Buck, Aloha Council, HI. Congratulations and an Ask
Andy Pin to each one of these dedicated Scouters for getting
that Board of Review quiz right on the money! (Check out my
June
3rd column if you missed it, but read no further till
you do, ‘cause a spoiler’s comin’ your way…)
The three statements that seemed to give folks the most trouble
were…
2. It’s the responsibility of the Eagle rank Board of Review to
approve the manner in which the candidate’s service project was
carried out.
TRUE:
In fact, the Eagle board of review is the only place where the
quality of leadership is assessed. The signature for
“completion” only confirms that the project was done as planned;
there’s no leadership assessment at that point. This is one of
the review’s most important responsibilities!
13. Scouts must be in full and correct uniform in order to
participate in a board of review.
FALSE:
While a complete and correct uniform is desired, uniforming is a
method of Scouting and not a requirement in and of itself.
Uniforming is to be encouraged and supported, but it cannot be
mandated or legislated.
14. A board of review represents an opportunity for the troop's
committee to learn how well the troop's adult leaders are
delivering the Scouting program to its youth.
TRUE:
This is really what boards of review are all about! They’re
certainly not “re-tests” of any requirements, for any reason.
They’re definitely conversations, and much of these
conversations needs to focus on the kind of experience the Scout
is having, and how well the troop is delivering the Scouting
program as written.
Dear
Andy,
I went on my first camping trip with my son's troop this weekend
and I had no idea there were so many rules for the trip. He was
not allowed to sit by me or eat the food that I had brought with
me. Is there a guide that I can get that would show me all the
rules for camping with your Scout? (Name Withheld, North Florida
Council)
This
is one terrific question and
the short answer is: In Boy Scouts,
parents don't camp with their sons. This is not "Webelos
III"!
Here's the longer answer...
One of the main purposes of Cub Scouting is to strengthen the
natural bond between a boy and his parents. Thus, many
activities (all of them at the Tiger level, in fact) are of the
boy-and-parent type, and up through Bear rank and arrow points,
the parent is "Akela"! Only at the Webelos level -- the
transitional program -- do parents begin to take a background
role and the Den Leader comes to the fore, but even then camping
is still of the "family" variety and boys do not camp without a
parent. This is because, across the ages of Cub Scouting, boys
are still largely in the "dependent" mode of their maturation.
By Boy Scout age, however, boys will naturally begin to seek
more independence -- this is a normal progression of the
maturation process through which they will ultimately become
productive adults. Recognizing this need for independence and
individuation from one's own parents, the Boy Scout program is
geared differently from Cub Scouting. In Boy Scouting, the
focus is on independent choices and actions, boys leading boys,
peer relationships, and minimal parental contact, especially
while on hikes and camping trips. This minimizing of
parental contact is neither arbitrary nor accidental; it is
deliberate and purposeful, based on studies of the male
maturation process by the BSA over the past 98 years.
Your son's troop seems to be following the proper format quite
well. Parents, if they attend campouts with the troop, are
definitely to be kept separate from the Scouts. If they aren’t
kept separate, there's simply no Boy Scouting going on -- It
devolves to "Cub Scouts in tan shirts." The more a troop keeps
parents and their sons from interacting while camping, the
better the troop is in delivering the Boy Scout program.
If you like "family camping," by all means please do this! It's
fun, and it's a nice thing to do with your son, because you give
him the opportunity to "show off" how much he's learning in Boy
Scouts! I heartily encourage you to continue camping with your
son! But, when it comes to his troop, and camping as a Boy
Scout, the greatest gift you can give your son is to wish him
well, give him a big hug, wave to him as he goes off on another
new adventure with his troop, and then welcome him home again
with a big hug when he returns!
Dear Andy,
I
was just told that a merit badge must be finished within
12 months. I can’t find this written anywhere. Please advise.
(Wesley Cowan, CM, Three Rivers Council, TX)
Wanna guess why you can't find anywhere, where it says that a
merit badge must be completed in 12 months? Cause it's
HORSEPUCKY! Merit badge requirements can be worked on right up
to a Scout's 18th birthday and even so-called "partials" are
good right up to the 18th birthday, and that's the straight
skinny from the BSA! Whoever told you that nonsense needs to be
straightened out fast, and everyone he or she told needs to get
the word, too, so you all can put a stop to this mis-information
before it spreads further.
Hey. Next time some yahoo spouts off about something that just
doesn’t sound right, or doesn’t fit with what you know about how
Scouting works, CHALLENGE ‘EM! Stop takin’ it on the chin! “Sez
who?” is always a great start! So is, “Show me where that’s
written.” We can stop the “baloney invasion” if we stop folks
from cuttin’ their own slices offa it!
Dear
Andy,
About a year ago, our old Scoutmaster stepped down and a new one
stepped up. It was a nice, orderly transition, and everyone was
happy. The old Scoutmaster's whole family had been very involved
in the troop (his wife was a committee member, his oldest son is
an Eagle and former SPL, middle son was ASPL at the time, and
youngest son was a Star). The family, especially the parents,
did a lot for the troop. In retrospect, they may have been doing
too much. The post-transition “honeymoon” lasted only a few
months. When things got tough for their middle son, they got
pretty vicious.
The
middle son was elected Senior Patrol Leader. But it became
quickly clear that he and the new Scoutmaster didn't see eye to
eye. The new SPL missed most troop meetings because of sports
and ran ineffective PLCs. The troop meetings, and consequently
the Scouts, really suffered. The PLC didn't plan scouting
activities for the meetings, and they turned into week after
week of cleaning chuck boxes, assigning tent buddies, and
useless planning sessions, with some occasional scout stuff
thrown in. The SPL refused to make sure Patrol Leaders prepared
for troop meetings. He was cocky and rude to the troop’s
adults. When he actually came to meetings he hung out with his
buddies and disrupted the other patrols. The Scoutmaster let the
PLCs and meetings suffer because "this is a boy-led troop." At
times, it really seemed like the SPL was intentionally making
the troop stink just to prove a point about the Scoutmaster, who
in turn was letting it stink just to prove a point about the
SPL.
As
if all that wasn't bad enough, the new SPL's parents and some
committee members were busy in the background undermining the
new Scoutmaster and the program. They connived to get one of the
less active ASMs elected as an adult OA member instead of the
Scoutmaster. The way it went down, and the comments afterwards,
made it clear that the OA election was meant as an insult. They
told parents that the new Scoutmaster was making the troop
dysfunctional. They threw nonsensical readings of the Guide to
Safe Scouting at the Scoutmaster and ASMs, accusing them of
running unsafe outings, even though it always turned out that
everything was being done per safety policies.
The
Committee Chair started shopping around for a new Scoutmaster.
The COR got involved, started asking questions, and concluded
that the Scoutmaster wasn’t doing anything wrong at all (other
than not getting along with the former Scoutmaster’s son).
The
Committee Chair called an alleged "all-parents" meeting,
and—unannounced—the Unit and District Commissioners showed
up, and the meeting turned into a three-hour “Scoutmaster
bashing session.”
The
Committee Chair then announced that he wanted to step down
immediately, but as soon as another parent stood up and said
he’ll take the job, the CC reneged.
I
was on the fence about who was really at fault here—the
Scoutmaster or the CC and committee or this family—until our
troop held elections a few weeks ago. The SPL and his brother
actively discouraged other Scouts from running for SPL or PL;
their mom tried to interfere by inventing some BSA policy about
an age requirement; and now there’s a rumor that she also tried
to discourage some Scouts from running. At the parents meeting,
somebody brought up her son’s actions in discouraging other
Scouts, and she responded that if they succeeded it just showed
what good leaders they were. It really seems like we have a very
aggressive, strong-willed family that’s making conscious
decisions to hurt the troop. It's a mess. Have you ever heard
of anything like this?
Yup,
I run into situations like this every week! They're all over
the place! And what an awful shame that folks have forgotten
why they got involved in the first place, and use Scouting as a
feeding ground for their angst, personal vendettas, and all
sorts of other nonsense that has nothing to do with growing boys
into responsible men.
Unless he’s supported 110% by the COR, Committee Chair, and
committee, the current Scoutmaster is best off walking away from
that troop, because there's so much stupid stuff going on that
unless the present volunteers make a unified and concerted
effort to stop it all, at once, this is a losing battle. And
stuff like this just isn't worth falling on one's sword for.
If you have a son in this troop, get him out and into a healthy
troop right away, because this one's about to chew itself to
pieces (if it hasn't, already). And get your son’s friends to
go with him! This is a “lifeboat” situation. Save as many as
you can.
Now I could tell you to "fight the good fight" and "be the white
knight" and all that, but I've come to the conclusion after
hearing about situations like this over the past seven years of
writing this column that it's rarely if ever worth the time,
energy, and emotions -- unless you're the COR or Committee
Chair. If you hold either or both of these positions, you can
clean house immediately and restore order almost overnight. But
try to fix this "from the inside"? Not a chance! Corrupted
organizations like this troop can only be de-loused from the
top.
Dear
Andy,
In
order for a Boy Scout to earn a badge, is it a requirement that
the badge is taught by a registered Merit Badge Counselor, or is
that just a recommendation…so long as the Scout knows the badge
and the adult is registered with Scouting (in some capacity).
Is having Merit Badge Counselors a requirement or
recommendation? For example, would a Scout lose his badges if
they were signed by the Scoutmaster and not a Merit Badge
Counselor? (K.R., Denver Area Council, CO)
Yes, a Boy Scout must earn a merit badge by working with
a registered Merit Badge Counselor (the only exception to
this is, of course, while at Scout summer camp, but even there
the final signature must be that of a MBC). This is a BSA policy
and it’s not subject to alternate methods. "Registered Merit
Badge Counselor" means an adult who is registered as an adult
volunteer with the BSA as a Merit Badge Counselor for one or
more specific merit badges (meaning that merely being registered
as a MBC doesn't automatically give one "permission" to counsel
on any old badge one chooses).
A Scoutmaster's signature in place of a Merit Badge Counselor's
signature is not permitted; it’s meaningless. No one except a
registered MBC is permitted to sign off on a merit badge as
completed.
A Scout, however, does not "lose" a badge because an adult
Scouter messed up. But shame on him for not getting trained, so
that this stuff doesn't happen! And shame on the troop's
advancement person for not catching the FUBAR!
Dear
Andy,
I’m
a First Class Scout and I’m wondering if I did both the Swimming
and Cycling merit badges, can I choose another required merit
badge to be dropped? (Name Withheld, Yankee Clipper Council, MA)
Nice
idea but nope! Required means just that. Some required merit
badges do have alternates, and if you earn an alternate you can
use this in the "elective" category. But you can’t side-step a
required merit badge except with an alternate required, if it
has one.
Dear
Andy,
Who
has the authority to remove a volunteer from a unit? Not
removing them from the BSA, but just simply asking them to leave
a particular unit because of problems that just continue on and
on (e.g., dissention among the ranks). Our Scoutmaster was the
one who asked a volunteer to drop out of the troop, but our
District Chair says no, a Scoutmaster can’t do that. Since I’m
the Committee Chair, I was going to wait, but the Scoutmaster
got to do this before I did. As Committee Chair, I felt that if
it’s going to be done, then I’d be the one who would have to do
it. Since I’m required to sign all adult applications along
with the COR, it would come down to one of us, but which? (G.N.,
CC, Flint River Council, GA)
The
responsibility for appointing and removing adult volunteers in a
Scouting unit falls to the COR and Committee Chair, in
collaboration. This is your job, side-by-side with your COR.
If there's a difference of opinion, the COR's supersedes the
CC's. The Scoutmaster has absolutely nothing to do with this
process. The Scoutmaster is, in fact, appointed by the COR-CC
collaboration. The Scoutmaster can make requests,
recommendations, or suggestions, and that's it.
So, fire and replace whom you need to, and move on. Do know,
however, that your unit-level decision absolutely cannot be
altered, changed, or rescinded by anyone—paid or volunteer—at
either the district or council level.
Hello Andy,
Can
a Venturing crew earn the Boy Scout National Camping Award? (Rob
Hersh)
Just
like it says, that award’s for Boy Scouts and Boy Scout troops.
Dear Andy,
Does
a Scoutmaster out-rank a Cubmaster and Troop Committee Chair?
(D.W.)
Questions like yours usually mean there's "trouble in paradise"!
The Scoutmaster Handbook will tell you precisely where
the Scoutmaster fits with regard to the troop committee and the
Committee Chair, and the Cub Scout Leader Book will do
the same for where the Cubmaster fits with regard to the pack
committee and the Pack Committee Chair. There are no provisions
in the BSA for altering these fundamental structures.
Dear
Andy,
On the Camping merit badge, it says: 9. Show experience in
camping by doing the following: a. Camp out a total of at least
20 days and 20 nights. The 20 days and 20 nights must be at a
designated Scouting activity or event. Sleep each night under
the sky or in a tent you have pitched. You may use a week of
long-term camp toward this requirement. If the camp provides a
tent that has already been pitched, you need not pitch your own
tent.
A
question in our troop has been about counting more than one week
of camping trips. I always understood that if you go on a
week-long camping trip every year, you can only count all of the
nights camped for one of the weeks camping toward the Camping
merit badge? So, you can only really count one of the week-long
camps nights, and the rest of the week-long camps would count as
one night camping, correct? (Brandt Hellstern)
Nope, not correct.
What the requirement says is that only a maximum of seven
days-and-nights may be used as "credit" toward the 20 d/n
total. The rest (the other up to 13 d/n) must NOT be at a
long-term camp, which means they must be with a Scout's troop or
patrol (like, weekend camping throughout the year). Got it
now? Good!
Dear
Andy,
In the Camping merit badge, there’s a statement as follows: "You
may use a week of long-term camp toward this requirement." What
is the actual definition of "long-term camp?"
Also, given the following scenario, how many nights would count
towards the camping merit badge?
2 six-night camping trips (troop summer trips),
1 five-night camping trip (NYLT),
1 three-night camping trip (troop weekend trip),
1 two-night camping trip (troop weekend trip), and
6 one-night camping trips (troop weekend trips).
(Diane Nicholson, Advancement Chair, Great Salt Lake Council,
UT)
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Resident camping at a BSA summer camp or equivalent BSA camp
(e.g., NYLT).
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Looks to be 28, but can’t be sure. Might be 17. “Troop summer
trips” is vague.
Hello Andy,
I
just finished reading what you said about letters of
recommendation for Eagle candidates. Your answer is misleading.
You need to review the point number 6 on the back of the Eagle
Scout Leadership Service Project Workbook, which says:
"…candidates should not be involved personally in transmitting
any CORRESPONDENCE between persons..." The key word here is
CORRESPONDENCE. If you look it up in the dictionary, you'll see
that it clearly implies "written" communication between parties.
Therefore, I believe the intent from National is for letters of
reference or recommendation to be supplied in writing, not
merely a conversation with a board of review member or district
representative. You might want to put something up on your web
site to clarify this point. (Roy Corbeil , COR, Yankee Clipper
Council, MA)
Yup, your logic looks sound. There’s just one teensy little
problem... This is the statement regarding references that
appears in Advancement Committee Policies and Procedures:
"The council advancement committee or its designee contacts
the person listed as a reference on the Eagle Scout Rank
Application either by letter, form, or telephone checklist. The
council determines the method or methods to be used..."
Dear
Andy,
We have a guy who chooses to wear (flaunt?) his yellow shoulder
loops as a regional camp inspector, even though his main primary
position is District Commissioner. He chooses not to change
them and has even posted his picture on our district website
wearing these yellow ones. Per the Insignia Guide, he
should be wearing silver because that’s what corresponds to his
primary registered position, but we can't seem to get this
message through to him. Any suggestions? I’ve told him that if
he wants to wear those yellow shoulder loops, he needs to be
registered as a regional Scouter. It’s changed nothing. What
more can we do? (Steve Shuga)
In the first place, being a member of a regional camp visitation
team doesn’t give anybody license to start wearing yellow
shoulder loops—it takes being registered with the BSA in a
regional-level position. The temporary annual job of visiting
camps doesn’t qualify.
A
District Commissioner serves at the pleasure of the District
Chair, who is the highest ranking volunteer in the district. If
he or she has a mind to, the District Chair can tell this guy to
change to silver shoulder loops in order to be consistent with
his district-level badge of office, and if he refuses then he
can kiss the District Commissioner position good bye. That’s
the hard-line approach, of course. The other approach is to
just feel sorta sorry for someone whose ego is so tiny that he
needs these shoulder loops in order to feel important, while in
fact they reveal him to be a sort of jerk about the whole
thing. I’d suggest keep smilin' even though it legitimately
bugs you -- there are bigger fish to fry!
Hi
Andy,
My youngest son just became a Webelos Scout, and I’d like to
know if he needs to do the Aquanaut activity badge requirements
at a BSA camp or what the requirements are for a Red
Cross-certified life guard to sign off on the requirements as he
completes them. Or does it need to be a BSA-certified life
guard? Thanks! (Mom in Susquehanna Council, PA)
The Aquanaut activity badge, along with lots of others, will be
earned with his Webelos den, under the guidance of a counselor
selected by his Den Leader.
Hi Andy,
Our troop’s
advancement chair has hit upon a great scheme to slow the pesky
advancement of our Scouts (no, not a joke!). Recently, a new and
mysterious board of review policy appeared on our troop
calendar. Up to then, reviews were quickly scheduled the week
or at the most the next week after the Scoutmaster's
Conference. But with this new policy, there are only three
reviews a year: in September, January, and June. Note how these
have been carefully planned, so that a Scout advancing to, say,
Star can’t possibly get to Life by the next scheduled review!
Then, this was revised even further, so that now there are just
two reviews a year—in September and the following June. So if a
Scout makes Star in September he has to wait nine months to make
Life and if he misses First Class in September, he misses the
merit badge college that year, because it’s only open to Scouts
who are First Class or higher in rank.
We have another
dandy rule, too: Scouts are forbidden to go to merit badge
colleges in adjoining councils (even though they’re welcomed).
My own son's last
review board was made up of the troop advancement chair, one
committee member, and two non-registered parents, even though
there were other committee members present at the troop meeting
that evening who could easily have been asked.
The story around
the troop is that the advancement chair can run things any way
she wants, with no one blowing the whistle on delaying reviews,
“stacking” them, involving non-registered people, or
manipulating access to merit badge opportunities. One of the
arguments that the troop committee also swallows is that even
though BSA policy says that Scouts should get to First Class in
a year, there’s nothing to prevent a troop from deciding not to
let certain scouts earn merit badges if they’re less than First
Class or advance beyond First Class if they choose to.
I’ve brought these
weird things up, but the party line is that no one can do
anything about these policies if that’s what the advancement
chair has decided, because she can run her position any way she
wants (this is “individual responsibility,” which the committee
as a whole says it believes in).
One of our Scouts
was recommended for Eagle, just before his military family was
re-stationed. This Scout has already served as Senior Patrol
Leader two years beforehand, as a Life Scout, and so qualified
for the tenure-in-leadership-position requirement, but the
advancement chair fought his making Eagle every inch of the
way. Why? Simple: The Scout’s a sophomore in high school and
she believes all Eagles should be 18—that it’s “just too
embarrassing” to award Eagle rank to Scouts who are only 15 or
16.
Any thoughts?
(Name & Council Withheld, Duh!)
If even half of what you’ve just described is accurate,
what a perversion of the advancement process! What a witch!
What a bunch of pantywaist wonders on the troop committee, to
say nothing about the waste-of-space Scoutmaster they’ve got!
Get your son outa that troop!
A corrupted organization cannot—absolutely cannot—be “fixed”
from the inside. Teaching pigs how to fly will happen sooner.
If you try, you’ll only antagonize these dunces, which could
backlash on your son, and you'll spend a lot of useless time and
energy accomplishing nothing except possibly endangering your
son. So: GET YOUR SON OUTA THAT TRAVESTY OF A TROOP! And see
if you can save some of his buddies, too!
Hi Andy,
Our family has
been in Scouting a long time. I’ve been a Cub Scout leader,
Webelos leader, and committee member; my husband is on the
council executive board and has also been a leader multiple
times. My oldest son is an Eagle Scout and my youngest son, age
14, received his Life rank about four months ago. We recently
left a troop because of a financial issue: When my son as well
as others from my Webelos den crossed over, they brought with
them money from their pack fund that they’d earned, and turned
it over to the troop, but then even though we kept asking for
over a year for a statement of my son’s account each month, we
only got a piece of paper twice stating the balance of what was
the total in his account, and we got concerned when we found out
that not every Scout participated in troop fundraisers, and yet
these same Scouts had their camp fees paid by the troop general
account. We also found that certain activities cost more to
participate in if certain Scouts didn’t attend. It came to a
head when we asked that the troop books be available to see.
This didn’t go over well, so we asked for our son’s money in his
account so he could change troops. Since then, we’ve met with
one other troop, and they denied my son’s ability to join
because they’d heard that we’d “stirred up trouble” in his
previous troop. Is this allowed for a Scout who’s received over
29 merit badges, earned his religious award, participated in
multiple community service projects and is a straight-A
student? Because if it is, I’m questioning my support to Boy
Scouts since my son has asked what did he did to deserve this.
I feel my son is being blackballed! (Name & Council Withheld)
With the depth of your family's Scouting background, you already
know that nothing untoward is going on with that new troop.
They do, however, seem to be concerned about something, and I
don't know whether they have reason to be or not, but fear is
emotionally-based and so it will always win over logic. If that
troop's leaders used the term "we" with reference to your son
and your family both—more or less lumping you all together—this
suggests to me that they may have no problem accepting your son,
but may be concerned about how deeply his parents will involve
themselves in the troop. Do they have cause for concern? I
don't know. But, maybe a conversation between just you and your
husband together, face-to-face with the Committee Chair and
Scoutmaster, could go a long way toward getting things out in
the open and between the four of you determining the best course
of action. If you choose this route, don't spend a lot of time
re-living the history of your involvement or the financial woes
of your more recent past. Instead, focus on your son's desire
to continue in Scouting and contribution to his new troop, and
the extent to which you two see yourselves involved directly, or
not, with that troop.
Dear
Andy,
What's the
procedure for barring a Scout from a troop?
We've had a real bit of difficulty with one of our Scouts. The
last straw for me was when he told me on the last night of
summer camp that I couldn't tell him what to do and I wasn't the
boss of him—dropping the “F-Bomb” along the way, more than
once. I was trying to stop him from instigating a fight with
another Scout, and I told him the best thing he could do for the
situation was to keep his mouth shut. It was right after that
that the Scoutmaster called his father to drive the hour out to
camp and pick his son up.
This Scout has been a real challenge, and he's systematically
managed to alienate each of the adults who have tried to help
him reach Eagle, including our Scoutmaster, the other Assistant
Scoutmaster and myself, our Chaplain, and several others. We've
tried to reach him, but the real problem is that it's his mom
and step-dad who really want him to reach Eagle. We've tried
everything to give him a sense of Scout Spirit, but we just
can't seem to get it to take. Now he's 41 days from his 18th
birthday, with a project to plan and execute, plus being only
half-way through Family Life MB (with my wife, the Chaplain, no
less!) and one more as-yet undecided merit badge. Needless to
say, he’s also setting an incredibly poor example for our
younger scouts.
The Scoutmaster and I felt it’s a decision best left to the
committee as to whether or not we retain him in the troop.
Regardless, this issue will sort itself out in 41 days. But
it's caused me a lot of pain in my soul since I just haven't
been able to reach him. We're his second troop. His previous
troop asked him not to come back after he (literally) threw
another Scout across a cabin at a previous summer camp (he's a
wrestler and can be very aggressive when provoked and
intimidating even when not). I don't feel it's safe or wise to
have him around other Scouts, but I absolutely hate not being
able to fill every Scout with the Scouting spirit. What's the
next step? (Brian Buck, Transatlantic Council)
The next step is for the Troop Committee Chair and the
Scoutmaster (together, and with the full knowledge of the troop
committee) to conference with this young man's parents. They
must be told in no uncertain terms that because their son has
demonstrated the capability and the will to bring bodily harm to
others, despite special attention and counseling by several of
the troop's adults, the only remaining solution appears to be
his removal from the troop forthwith, for reasons of the safety
of others. Then ask the parents if they can suggest any other
solutions to what has been demonstrated to be an ongoing problem
with physical harm to others as the outcome. If they offer a
viable option that you all can live with, then at the conclusion
of the conversation state your agreement to keep the Scout, but
make it crystal clear that even the hint of a further incident
will result in his immediate de-registration from the troop, and
there will be no further discussion.
As for advancement, the handbook tells every Scout that he can
progress at the pace he chooses. Don't put pressure on this
Scout, or resort to any finger-wagging about how time's slipping
by, and certainly don't "bend the rules" for him. He'll either
do what he needs to do on his own, or he won't, and that's
entirely up to him!
We can mold boys into men; but we can't fix 'em if they're
broke. That's just not our profession.
Happy Scouting!
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