Hi
Andy,
I’m
acting as a temporary
Den
Leader for my son’s
Tiger Cub den. I didn't realize until I found this website that there’s
a new
Video Game belt loop being offered for Cub Scouts.
I'm
an
Eagle Scout, and
I didn't earn that
rank by sitting on my butt playing Pac-Man and Donkey
Kong!
I'm very troubled and disturbed by this. I think you guys are lowering
the expectation level. I think it’s
a joke. I understand we’re
only talking about young kids here, and everyone says you have to change
with the times, but this is ridiculous. (Tom Riley,
Pine Tree Council,
ME)
I hear you loud n’ clear. It may help a bit to recognize that the
Cub Scout
belt loop and pin programs are supplemental, only. They're not
mandatory in any sense, and all Tigers, Wolves, Bears, and Webelos
will
focus first on the achievements and
electives in their handbooks.
Then, if there's time left over and they've already earned their rank
badges and a bunch of arrow points and so on, they might consider
tackling a few of the academics and sports offerings in this
supplemental program. They're simple, harmless,
and many of them can be knocked off in
a single den meeting or outing.
In other words, it's no biggie.
Don't fret...
Regular ranks
and their requirements
in both Cub Scouts and Boy Scouts haven't been dumbed-down. Honest!
Dear
Andy,
Why is the order of the
Eagle Palms: Bronze, Gold,
and then Silver?
Logically, one would think the order
would
be Bronze, Silver, then Gold.
I’m
sure the BSA must have a reason for this and I’m
curious to know.
(Dave McMann,
Blue Ridge
Council, SC)
Great question, and the answer’s available with just a little bit of
on-line research:
The BSA follows the military order,
whereby silver supersedes gold (or brass).
One citation gives us this tidbit:
Although gold
is worth more than silver, silver outranks gold, because in 1832
the
U.S. Army decreed that infantry colonels would wear gold eagles on an
epaulette of silver
while all other colonels would wear
silver eagles on gold, but when
majors and lieutenant colonels received the leaves, this tradition
couldn’t continue, so silver leaves
were designated to
represent
lieutenant colonels, and gold, majors.
This tradition was borrowed from the British
military tradition,
so, since our founder, Robert S.S.
Baden-Powell, had been a British
Lieutenant
General,
he
transposed
the tradition
to
the
Scouting movement.
So, where the common expression is “go for the gold,”
in Scouting we go for the silver. This also tells you why the “eagle”
itself is silver and not gold. Also, the badges of the highest-level
council staffers (both volunteer and professional) are also largely
silver, and as “ranks” move closer to the unit level, more and more gold
color is introduced. Also, where the old Scoutmaster emblems were
silver, those of Assistant Scoutmasters were gold and Junior Assistant
Scoutmasters were gold-and-brown.
Now some sharp-eyed readers are sure
to wonder why the shoulder loops of regional and
national Scouters (both volunteer and professional) are gold, while
those of council staffers are silver. I can only speculate here. My
guesses are that either (a) somebody goofed or
(b) somebody wisely realized that regional and national Scouters serve
largely as support to
our
council folks (and don’t actually “out-rank” them), so gold would be
more appropriate. I’d like to believe that the latter of these two
guesses is more accurate.
Dear Andy,
I’m a fairly new “Scout Dad”
in the troop my son transferred to when our family
moved. I’ve just become advancement coordinator
for a troop whose predecessor to me in this position held it for some 20
years. As I’m going through troop records and learning from some of the
more seasoned volunteers in this troop, I’m picking up
some stuff that just doesn’t feel right. For instance, we have an Eagle
rank candidate who just completed all requirements and his Scoutmaster
conference, and I’m being asked to set up his “preliminary” board of
review. When I asked what this is, the other troop leaders told me
that, for Eagle, we do a “full dress rehearsal” with the Scout, so that
he knows how to answer all the questions when we do the “real’ board of
review and the council advancement committee representative is present,
so
that
the “real” one
goes well, with
no “glitches,” they tell me. Then there are the “skills
reviews” for the other ranks. Here, it seems
that, each time a Scout
advances, he’s tested on almost all knowledge and skills he’s supposed
to have acquired since first becoming a Scout—from knot-tying to first
aid procedures to compass-reading, to re-re-explaining what each point
of the Scout Law means,
etc.
When I mentioned that this sounds like re-testing, which isn’t
permitted, according to BSA advancement policies (I’m not exactly a
babe-in-the-woods here, although some think I am—I held this same
position in my son’s first troop, before we moved here), they dodge this
by claiming “it’s only a ‘review’—it’s not a ‘re-test,’ so it’s legal.”
(To me, the notion of
calling a pig a swan
doesn’t
change the fact that it’s hairy and
wallows in muck.) The other thing I’ve noticed, in reviewing this
troop’s “Eagle Wall of Fame” is that almost every one of the Scouts who
made it to Eagle rank were within months (actually, usually weeks) of
their 18th
birthdays. When
I asked why this was, the answer was that the person who had this job
before me didn’t believe that a Scout could fully understand the meaning
and significance of the Eagle rank till he’d matured, and so most Scouts
were stalled or otherwise held back from advancing until they’d
“properly matured,” in this guy’s eyes.
So, I guess my question is: What
now? Do I go along with the “traditions” of this troop, or do I try to
make some changes (and maybe make some enemies along the way)? Even the
current Scoutmaster, who was a Scout in this troop, thinks that what my
predecessor was doing was, as he put it, “maybe not perfect, but what’s
the harm?” (Name & Council Withheld)
What you seem to be faced with is a
situation of advancement mis-handling that is several Scout-generations
deep. If what you’re telling me is even half-accurate, this troop has
been off-the-mark for years, and the pity is they don’t even seem to
know it! I believe your best bet to get things right after so many
years is to move slowly and gently. On things like those “preliminary”
Eagle reviews (which I’d call stupid,
because they totally take away from the Scout himself any sense of
spontaneity and conversation) and those “skills reviews” (which you’ve
correctly branded as totally illegal), I’d probably suggest something
along the lines of “let’s just try to do without, this time, and see how
things go…” You might also want to be sure that you sit on every single
board of review, from here on out, because you have no idea whether or
not the Scouts are being “grilled” and you’ll need to cut this off
instantly in the review. Finally, on the “maturing” thing, this is
endemic and will take a long time to get fixed, but if you keep current
requirement-by-requirement—by-rank records, you’ll be able to “alert”
and encourage the Scoutmaster to conference with the troop’s Scouts as
soon as you see that their other requirements are done, so that you can
then schedule their boards of review without any delay.
You don’t have an easy job, but at
least I hope your predecessor’s no longer involved actively with the
troop, so that he can’t try to undermine you,
blind-side you, bad-mouth you behind your back, or
decide to have a confrontation.
In mean-spirited confrontations like that, there are no “winners”—only
survivors.
Good luck –
Dear Andy,
My troop recently marched in a
Memorial Day parade.
One of
our Scouts wanted to carry one
of the parade rifles. One of the parade
leaders informed this
Scout that he’d
need to be properly trained in how to carry a rifle before
he’d be
permitted to
do so, but another
leader said that it’s
against BSA policy for a
Boy
Scout to carry a rifle during a parade.
Needless to say,
it didn’t happen.
So, what are the
BSA
policies,
if any, with respect to Boy Scouts carrying rifles
during a parade or similar activity? (Rick Brewster, ASM,
Baltimore Area Council, MD)
Excellent question, and here's
your answer,
straight
from the Special Regulations section of the BSA
Insignia Guide (No. 33066): "The wearing of special helmets, scarves,
gloves, unofficial leggings, and the carrying of ceremonial guns or
swords...is in violation of the
Rules and Regulations of the Boy Scouts of America."
Hi
Andy,
One of our
committee members says
that
it’s against BSA policy for
a Scout to use the left-handed
handshake with a committee
person who is
not in uniform.
But we can’t
find
any written reference to
this. Do
you know
where we’d find it?
(Alice Reno)
Stop looking and make that Yo-Yo find it and show it to
you. Why? Because it’s unadulterated
horsepucky.
Anyone
who is a Scout or Scouter and wants to get it right will use the
left-hand handclasp, just like the rest of the
30 million
Scouts and Scouters on this planet.
Whether in uniform, in "civvies,"
or wearing cowboy boots and a thong with a buffalo-horn headdress, the left-handed handclasp between Scouts and Scouters
(or any combination thereof) is never wrong!
Dear Andy,
I've searched high and low on
a variety of online
resources,
and
discussed this
issue with numerous
Scouting
leaders, and can’t seem to get an answer… My
question
is this:
Can a Scout perform a project and have that project count for two or
three
different requirements,
for different merit badges?
Now on the surface, most would say
no way,
but hear out the scope of the project to see if there is
any variance on your thoughts...
Having being
raised around
IT (Information
Technology) my son set out
to do
req.
4 or 5 of Family Life
merit badge and
req.
7b of Communications merit badge, which in a somewhat
related way, a Scout could also satisfy nearly all
requirements for
Computers merit badge.
His project
is to plan,
design,
implement, and
maintain an open-source
home
inventory
system. The resources required
include a computer tower
with a CD-ROM drive,
monitor, keyboard, mouse, power cords,
power strip,
data cables,
blank writable CDs / DVDs, and
notepad. Work details: assemble computer parts into a
functioning machine, research
best open-source OS distribution for the project, download ISO-type file, use
CD-/DVD-writing
software to transfer ISO file to usable DVD, install operating system
onto project computer plus
database,
web server,
PHP,
and inventory system software,
configure security, then configure
all to function properly together, testing with item entry. Finally, customize/personalize web entry/lookup
pages and perform
phased entry of items into system, then create backup
database locally, to another computer, or to writable CD/DVD.
So,
with this potentially many-week to many-month project, could any, in
part or all, satisfy requirements across the
merit badges
I’ve mentioned?
Thanks in advance for your insight, and reference to any
rules/regulations that might apply here. (Arby
Davis, ASM,
Las Vegas
Area Council, NV)
This Scout should absolutely not proceed with this
idea before speaking with each individual Merit Badge Counselor.
To your question, you won't find a BSA
policy for what you're looking for, because there isn't one.
Acceptance and approval of such projects are the specific province of
each individual Merit Badge Counselor.
One or more might give a green light; others may not. It all depends on
whether or not the individual Merit Badge Counselor sees the project as
fulfilling the letter and intent of the requirement at hand. So, this Scout would serve himself
well by obtaining a "Blue Card" (i.e., Merit Badge Application) for the
merit badges he's interested in and then, in meeting with the particular
Merit Badge Counselor for each one, describe his project and ask the
Counselor for approval.
The Counselor will decide.
Beyond your question, the
BSA-prescribed process for earning merit badges is to first obtain the
Merit Badge Application (aka “Blue Card”)
and then meet personally with the specific Counselor to review the
requirements and begin fulfilling each of them under the guidance and
expertise of the Counselor's watchful eye. To work on requirements in
isolation and in advance of actually starting the merit badge (the BSA
states that a Scout has started when he has his first meeting with the
specific Counselor) is highly uncertain and dangerous,
because if the Counselor doesn't
consider the work appropriate to the letter and intent of the
requirement, it won't be counted, meaning that the Scout has done
unnecessary work in the absence of direct guidance.
So, the very best thing this Scout
can do is get his Blue Cards, get the names and contact information of
the Counselors he'll be working with, and then arranging a meeting with
each one. This is how the earning of
merit badges progress, as described in the
Boy Scout Handbook.
Dear
Andy,
Our troop
recently observed Scout Sunday
at a
Congregational Church.
I think it’s
true that
Scouts
can have Scout Sunday any date
they want, but why do they expect
Scouts who aren’t of this denomination to
attend a church that’s
not of their own faith?
(Name & Council Withheld)
On Scout Sunday, the entire troop goes to their chosen
church, temple,
synagogue, meeting house—it
really
doesn't matter which.
The pastor, priest, rabbi, or other religious leader
should be collaborated with in advance, of course, so that he or she can
gear the sermon to this unique annual event. "A Scout is reverent"
means that he respects the religious believes of
all, and so
any Scout
can quite easily attend a
service or mass outside of his own particular faith or denomination with
impunity.
It's, that the very least, a unique and friendly learning experience.
In short, there should be no hesitation whatsoever. As far as the month
the troop chose,
consider next year getting
it a little bit closer to when it's actually supposed to be, which is
the Sunday immediately before or on February 8th.
Dear Andy,
Over
the past several years, our troop has instituted series
of "participation
requirements"
required for rank
advancement.
This list
includes: (1)
attendance of at least 50% of the
troop
weekly meetings, (2)
participating in a minimum of 3
troop
or selected
OA campouts during the prior 6 months or 5 troop or selected
OA campouts during the
prior 12 months (each week of summer
camp
may
count as one campout;
a
Jamboree counts as one campout;
Philmont counts as two campouts; cabin camping
qualifies), (3)
participation in a minimum of 6 hours of troop
community
service during the prior 6 months, (4) participation
in a minimum of 3 hours at
the
annual troop
wreath
sale fund-raiser,
and (5)
at least 3 hours
participation
at other troop fund-raising
events
during the prior 6
months, if applicable.
Clearly,
there’s some overlap with
official
BSA
national
advancement requirements, and this
list is couched in terms of "participation."
But don't these additional items violate
the BSA rules by effectively
establishing
many more requirements for
rank
advancement than the
BSA stipulates?
It’s certainly putting a
damper on the spirits of many long-term
Scouts who have
been working toward advancement! (Name
& Council Withheld)
I’m honoring your request for
anonymity but I’ll tell you now in complete honesty: I want to publish
the number and location of this awful troop, so that all boys and
parents considering the Boy Scout experience will STAY AWAY.
This is total, unadulterated nonsense. That's not my opinion; that's the
standard of the BSA and there's a policy for it.
The BSA clearly states that units may not apply percentages, numbers, or
anything else to "participation" (which is merely an attempt on this
troop's part to "loophole" out of BSA "active" regulations, and shame on
them for trying). Moreover, this constitutes adding to
requirements, which is also
strictly
prohibited by BSA national policy.
Unless they're willing to follow BSA
standards, get your son out of that troop and into a troop that delivers
the Scouting program the way it's intended to be delivered.
What these people are trying to do has a parallel: "The floggings will
continue till morale improves."
The true "volunteers" in Scouting are the Scouts themselves. No
"participation legislation" will ever make up for a weak, boring, dull,
or non-challenging program.
Thank you.
It's really helpful to get some guidance.
I wish I'd written to you sooner.
I'm going to talk to the leadership, as I believe that they will listen.
(Your column is invaluable!)
I hope they'll listen, and come to
their senses. If the BSA wanted such
strictures put on "active" or "participation" the BSA would have written
this stuff into the requirements, so that fact that the BSA
hasn't done this is your very
best guidepost. Beyond this, the very idea
of thinking that a troop (or
anyone)
can arbitrarily play fast and loose with BSA national requirements isn’t
just off-base; they’re not even in the ballpark.
Hi Andy,
Can you tell me who can give, or where we can get, the official
interpretation of a specific merit badge requirement?
It’s
been my understanding
that
the role of
a Merit Badge Counselor
is that of
coach;
not inquisitor.
I’ve also never presumed that it was ever the Merit Badge Counselor’s place or authority
to determine which options a Scout chooses to use, to complete the
requirements for a
merit badge,
or which options within a single requirement a Scout chooses. Have I
been
missing
the target all these years?
Here’s an
example
of what I mean: For
Citizenship in the Community,
requirement
8 says:
“Stage your presentation in front of your
Merit
Badge
Counselor or a group.”
Is the “or” at the discretion of the
Scout,
or the
Counselor?
(Greg Robinson, Ozark Trails Council, MO)
Let's
first agree that "interpretations" of merit badge requirements are
rarely if ever actually needed.
Most all requirements are written to be specific and without vagueness
or guile. For instance,
when a requirement says "tell..."
it means tell; when it says "describe..."
it means describe; when it says "deliver
a 5 minute speech..." it means a speech, not a "talk" and it's to last 5
minutes, not 4 or 14 or some other number; when it says "demonstrate..." it means show, not talk
about or write an essay about;
when it says "improvise a natural shelter..." it
means don't use a tarp or tent;
when it says "prepare a first-aid kit..." it doesn't
mean go out and buy one;
when it says "demonstrate your ability to jump feet-first into water over your head...swim
25 yards on the surface, etc...." it doesn't mean dive in and swim
underwater for 15 or 50 yards.
Second, the role of a Merit Badge
Counselor is that of an expert who
not only knows
the requirements
but has the experience and ability to teach beyond them; however,
without ever demanding that a Scout do more (or less) than what is
stated; and who can instill in the Scout an
appreciation for the subject matter in such a way that the Scout may
choose it as a hobby or life-long interest,
or even career.
Third, when a requirement offers an option, such
as the one you cite—"Develop
a public presentation...Stage your presentation in front of your Merit
Badge Counselor or a group, such as your patrol or a class at
school"—since this is the Scout's merit badge it's the Scout, in
consultation with his counselor, who gets to choose which option he'd
like to use.
If a Scoutmaster receives feedback from any Scout that a
Merit Badge Counselor is not following these and the other guidelines
provided by the BSA for Merit Badge Counselors, he would be wise to
investigate, and then not only inform the district or council
advancement committee but also find an alternate Merit Badge Counselor
for his Scouts. Conversely, if a Scoutmaster learns of a Merit Badge
Counselor who is getting it right, and Scouts describe him or her with
enthusiasm, then this is exactly the sort of person the Scoutmaster
would want to encourage his Scouts to contact and work with.
Dear
Andy,
Where did the terms "Totin' Chip"
and "Firem'n Chit" originate? These
terms are hard to remember and
pronounce,
even for us leaders! (Brian
Glanz, ASM,
Lincoln
Heritage Council, KY)
The Totin' Chip started around
1950, as a simple way to assure that
Scouts had a decent knowledge of edged tool safety before we sent them
out there to hack up the woods (and themselves!). The Firem'n Chit came
later, for similar reasons (helps prevent having to call in
smoke-jumpers!). "Totin'" is pronounced
just the way it's spelled; "Firem'n" is pronounced "fireman" (and we
don't have to bow to "PC" addicts here, because it's BOY Scouts).
Thanks!
More specifically, I’m often asked what a "chit" is,
as in
“Firem'n Chit.”
Any ideas?
"Chit" is in
most any dictionary... It's a voucher, usually an informal one.
So, from now on, just tell anyone who asks you to do a bit
of homework first, before asking for an answer they can easily get for
themselves.
Hi Andy,
Why is the
“Whittlin’ Chip” patch shaped
like a
pocket flap
patch,
if it’s not meant to be worn there? (Rick
Hautekeete, Transatlantic Council,
Basel, CH)
I've seen both Whittlin'
Chip and Totin' Chip patches shaped like flaps and,
in my not-so-humble opinion, they belong in a bucket labeled
"Dumb Patch Ideas." Of course
they don't belong on uniforms, and
certainly not
on uniform pocket flaps, which are specifically reserved for Boy Scout
Order of the Arrow
and Cub Scout Outdoor Activity flap-patches. Some genius, I’m guessing, had
the idea that there should be a
patch
for everything, from Pinewood Derby participation to “I Wiped Myself
Clean” to
“Spinach-Eating Hero” to
“When I Up-Chucked I Missed My
Tennies,”
and on and on... and the unfortunate thing is that these repudiate a
fundamental tenet of Scouting: That
we do something for the doing of it and not to get a patch. I've seen
these silly things even sewn on the backs of uniform shirts, which
practice
I personally consider about
as nonsensical as one can get!
Patches like these are
fine when put in a memorabilia box or album, or
sewn on a Cub Scout's red patch vest, or even on the back of a
Boy Scout’s merit badge sash (yes, they're legal there),
but to slap 'em all over a perfectly serviceable uniform shirt is
about
the height of dumb,
if not desperate.
Dear Andy,
One of our
Scouts
just asked
me for his
Scoutmaster Conference prior to
his
completing his Eagle
project. His
father
claims that
the
Scoutmaster
Handbook says that a
Scoutmaster Conference for Eagle can be held at any time, and is asking
that I do it when his son requests it.
When is the proper or
best time to hold a Scoutmaster Conference,
for Eagle or any rank?
(Allen Beaman, SM)
The Scoutmaster Conference is
always the last of all requirements to be completed.
This is so that the Scout has the opportunity to review with his
Scoutmaster the requirements he's completed, in the dimensions of how
well they went, were there any problems, and what he might suggest for
other Scouts coming along behind him.
It's also an opportunity for the Scoutmaster to learn from the Scout how
well he believes the Scouting program offered by the troop as a whole is
going and what might be improved.
Finally, it's an opportunity for the Scoutmaster to help the Scout
prepare for his rank boards of review, which will be shortly coming up.
Therefore, to carry out a Scoutmaster Conference before all other
requirements are completed is about the same as getting ready for a prom
by putting on your dancing shoes but leaving your tux at home!
To correct a misimpression, thereby averting future
difficulties in this area, you’ll want to
ask that father to show you the page and statement in the
Scoutmaster Handbook that says a conference can be conducted
at any time. He’ll show you this, on page 120: “The Scoutmaster
conference can be used as a counseling tool at any time and for a
variety of other reasons.” This is precisely where this father,
although I’m sure well-intentioned, is mistaken. This particular
statement points out that
in addition to
conferences preceding rank advancement, the Scoutmaster conference can
also be used for other purposes and, therefore, would be conducted as
needs
or situations
unrelated to rank
advancement arise.
Dear Andy,
Can a person be both a Cubmaster
and a Scoutmaster at the same time? I can’t find
any BSA guidelines for this.
(Bill Errico)
Anyone may hold more than
one unit-level position, just so long as the positions aren't in the
same unit (the sole exception being CR-CC, which is permitted by the
BSA). So, in the case of a person who
wishes to be both a Cubmaster of a pack and Scoutmaster of a troop,
there's no BSA policy that prohibits this.
Whether it's a sensible idea or not is another matter, and that's for
the individual and his or her family to decide.
Hi Andy,
We have
a young
Scout
in our troop who’s
is looking to keep busy this summer
with merit badges (his
parents offered him a
choice of brushing up on school
subjects
or working on merit badges—easy
decision!) He’s
requesting
“blue cards” for four
Eagle-required
and
six elective merit badges.
I’ve suggested that he pace himself and try a few at a time—complete
two and I’ll
give him more blue cards—in an
attempt to set him up for success. However,
his parents strongly disagree, pointing out from the Boy
Scout Handbook
that
a
Scout
works at his own pace and
that I can’t
limit how many he works
on at any time.
Do you have any advice here? (Kevin Lynch,
Troop Advancement Chair,
Greater
Cleveland Council, OH)
In life, we're limited by only two things: What we believe we
can't do, and what
others believe we can't do. There are no other limitations.
Our jobs, as Scouting volunteers, is to
help the youth we serve spread their wings and fly... It's not to tell
them, in our infinite wisdom, that we don't think they're ready yet. This young man's Scoutmaster (not
advancement coordinator) needs to give him exactly what he's asked for,
along with the names and contact information for at least one Merit
Badge Counselor for every merit badge he's expressed interest in.
There is no second option.
It’s
not our job to "set Scouts up for success" by applying
limits on their ambitions. It's our job to help them
devise, initiate, and follow through on their own goals...which lead to
successes.
We can stand behind them, stand at their side, but never stand in front
of them—We risk blocking their vision.
You already know what needs to be done here, and I sincerely thank you
for writing to me to confirm it.
Dear
Andy,
I’m
a Camping Merit Badge Counselor
and have a question...
If a
Scout started this
merit badge three
years ago and hasn’t
finished it (yet), does he need to complete it
now using the
new requirements,
or the old? (Sandy
Scharpenberg)
The last time the requirements for
this merit badge were revised was on January 1, 2007; so that the Scout
you're asking about must have started in 2006 in order to be affected by
the two relatively minor changes—one
having to do with using a GPS and the other stipulating that the 20 days
and nights of camping be Scouting event-related.
There’s usually a one-year grace period when
merit badge
changes like these
are made, and this would have expired some
two years ago, with the result that,
today, a Scout would obviously use the current and not three years
out-of-date
requirements. Since the changes are, as
noted, minor, they’re hardly burdensome for any Scout.
Dear Andy,
I’m a
new Scoutmaster,
having only been
with the troop for nine months and in
this position for
the last six.
Right now, we
have 11
Scouts—they’re
mostly from a
group of boys who came up from
Cub Scouting
with the same leader the entire time and, when they were
about to cross-over to
Boy Scouting,
our
sponsor chartered
this
troop.
Up to now it’s
been
mostly just a
"hang-out" for the boys;
not much in the way of
Scouting
has ever been done.
There’s no
patrol method, no real leadership positions, in general
no responsibility
on the boys’ parts for anything. Their
(former)
Scoutmaster
did all the meeting and trip
planning,
cooking,
and everything else, and the boys just sort of showed up
(or not). When my
own
son crossed over,
I talked the Scoutmaster into stepping down and letting me take a shot
at it, and the committee agreed. So what we have
right now
is a group
of 13-14 year-old
boys who have no interest in Scouting
as it’s supposed to be, little discipline,
and not a lot of enthusiasm for doing anything themselves. I’ve tried to
get them excited about
Scouting
by telling stories of
own
my adventures
as a Scout, but the former Scoutmaster
(who’s now the
ASM)
still doesn't want to get with the program. His wife is the Committee
Chair, and she’s said that
she doesn't want the position—she's just there to
satisfy the chartering requirements. Then there are
a couple of
hand-picked committee members who don’t do much other
than agree with this couple.
I’m
not one to give up easily
or complain very much,
but I’m feeling like I'm
hitting a brick wall and feel like I should encourage my son to visit
other troops. I really don't want to give up on these boys.
I do like to end things on a positive, so I will. We have
filled some
key youth leader positions
with elections,
and these boys seem to be on the right
track. I’m
continuing to coach them to help them stay focused, but I can see them
wanting to give up. We’ve started having monthly campouts.
And, for
the first time in the troop’s
history, records are being kept—even though they’re only
by me.
Any advice would be greatly
appreciated. (Name & Council Withheld)
Essentially, what seems to have
happened is that the former Cub Scout leader created a "Webelos 3" den
instead of a Boy Scout troop, and has subjected these boys to something
that has absolutely nothing to do with Boy Scouting for the past several
years. In all candor, it may be
too late to change these "old Webelos Scouts" into true Boy Scouts...
their off-the-mark activities and habits have simply become too
ingrained for you or anyone else to overcome in the short- or even
medium-term.
Even though you're the Scoutmaster at
present, I'd say that your primary responsibility is first and foremost
to your own son.
On this basis, I'd immediately check out neighboring troops, find one
that's delivering the Boy Scouting program as it's supposed to be
delivered (or, if not "perfectly," at least a lot closer to True North
than the way this unfortunate lot of boys have been mishandled!) and
give your son the option to
transfer over right away.
Now you might consider this
"abandonment" of your current troop, so you'll need to keep firmly in
mind that even the most vigilant and heroic of sea captains reaches a
point where he knows his ship is not going to stay afloat, and he orders
his crew and himself off and into the lifeboats—he
does not "go down
with his ship!
I wouldn't
be saying
this if you’d told me that the committee, other
adult volunteers, and sponsor are behind you 110% and the boys were
eager to become true Boy Scouts.
But none of these things seems to be happening and, in many ways, you’re
repeating what the former “World’s Oldest Patrol Leader” was doing—just
with better intentions. There comes a point where
we need to decide whether we put our energies into our own children, or
others' and I opt for my own.
Your choice is yours. If you decide to stay and “fight the good fight,”
that’s your decision. I hope, however, that you’ll let your son clearly
know that he can go and join another troop
regardless of what
you decide.
Dear Andy,
Can you
post a picture
of
how
Eagle palms are wore on
the
Eagle
Scout
medal and how the medal’s
worn on the
uniform? Thanks! (Aaron
Hothem)
Go here:
http://www.mninter.net/~blkeagle/eagmedal.htm
This is a good description from "Black Eagle," a Scouter who's also a
military officer, so he's pretty buttoned up on this sorta stuff!
For how palms are worn try:
www.usscouts.org/awards/eaglescout.asp
Dear Andy,
How many merit badges can you
complete at the Jamboree if you’re
prepared and if you’re
not prepared? How many days do they give you to work on merit badges?
(Andrew Duncan, Star Scout,
Circle
Ten Council,
TX)
There's a whole bunch you
can go for, and a lot don’t make you have stuff done
first... There's no exact number, because each Scout's different and
will have a different set of patrol and troop responsibilities, and
there's lots and lots of other stuff to do
at a Jamboree, too!
Be sure to check out the ACTION CENTERS!
This is much bigger than a "merit badge fair"! My suggestion would be
to find unusual
merit badges—stuff
you wouldn't
find back
at home, like Railroading, Textiles, Weather, and stuff like that. And,
be sure to pick a "buddy" and do 'em together—It's
a lot more fun that way, and you want to come
home with “completes;” not “partials.”
Have a BLAST!
Happy Scouting!
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